Does She Like Me?

[denmas]

This girl is always giving me kisses and hugs, and were very close, we talk alot and we hang out alot. shes always holding me and stuff. She gets mad when i talk to other girls and we were in the movies recently and we were holding hands the whole time, we were very close, but i still dunno if she likes me, and we were talking online and we were discussing stuff, and she said she only sees me as a friend. is she lying? cuz i dont show her that i like her or anything and im always with other grls so i dunt know...
any ideas?

 

[aftershock]

Welcome.

You should have tried reading the DJ Bible first. Theres a link somewhere.

How old are you? How old is she?

Generally you should go on what women do, not say. I'd say go for it as she is showing you IOIs; the "I only see you as a friend" may be her not wanting to get rejected by you.

Kiss the ho next time she gets flirty.

 

[PleasureKing]

The question is not "does she like me" but "do you like her". If you like her, show her, but show it correctly.

I will still answer your question though. The answer is simple. Yes. She liked you. Notice how I said she liked you, in the past tense, not likes you. She still has interest in you, but its borderline 50%. Now is the time to take a risk, and see if she "likes" you currently.

How do you do this? Simple, show your sexuality towards her. Arranging a "date" / "hangout" wont be too difficult right? (considering you two have gone out in the past). Once your with her, make direct eye contact, smile, and make her know a kiss is on your mind. Look her in the eyes, look down at her lips, then look back at her. Slowly, move in and go closer to her lips, then pause.

Judging by her reactions, you will know how she feels.

She kisses you: interested
She pauses, but DOES let you kiss her: interested just still shy from before
She backs away: she has lost interest in you long ago

You should perform the above only if you are comfortable with it. It has to be natural, and you have to decide for yourself if you like her. You dont want to do something you will later regret.

I only gave you a suggestion on how to show your sexuality. You can always search the board, or figure out a way on your own on how to show it.

remember: EMBRACE YOUR SEXUALITY.

how a women can view you:
friend: someone to talk to
possible boyfriend: someone to talk to, someone to be close with, someone to be sexual with

and she said she only sees me as a friend. is she lying?

some women are insecure. some women are very insecure. some women are totally something else. she noticed how you werent showing much signs of attraction, which gave her reasons to believe you dont like her sexually. Shes trying to force herself to not like you for 2 reasons:

1. protect herself
2. not look desperate


Take action. If you dont, the "what-ifs" will haunt you.

 

[sparky0000]

she is not into you. trust me. if a girl really is into you she will NEVER tell you that she only sees you as a friend. now, seeing that she is an american or brit she will probably eventually sleep with you. that is after she has slept with a guy that she is really into. in other words, you will have been played.

p.s. you had better be lucky that you are not in france. some swarthy old french dude would take great pleasure in snatching her away from you.

 

[ryannath]

Man, she said she just liked you as a friend, but I can tell you that I have said that to a girl before and it made her more interested. Anyway, I really only did like her as a friend and i wasn't lying. But, I think she does like you like you said, but just as a friend and not as a lover. You can try though and go for it and see what happens.

 

[Skilla_Staz]

Grab her ass man. No joke. Even if she only sees you as a friend, being a little more "sexual" and a little less "affectionate" will help