"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Does she like me, or what??

Snap87

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This girl i had in class for the past semester had been glancing over at me a lot of times. Every time i look at her she looks away quickly. I've gone a few times up to her to talk, but when i ask her questions that requires her to say more than yes or no, she always finds a way to answer with only a few words, and doesn't keep a conversation going. Also when i ask her questions, she looks in my eye for one second, then away, one second, away, etc....she just glances at me. She doesn't hold eye contact, doesn't keep conversation going, but still glances at me even from a long distance. For example, when im in a group of friends, and I see her about 100 feet away, she is looking at me but then looks away immediately. Does she like me, or just thinks im weird??
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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eaglez1177

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Sounds like she's pretty shy and nervous, which could be because she really does like you. Girls can get like that sometimes they get all nervous and jumpy when theyre around guys they like. Observe her body language!
 

WalkingStick

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Sounds like she's interested.

The only way to find out for sure is to ask her out (if you're interested in her)
 

jeffthechef

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Who Gives A **** If She Seems Like She's Interested...this Is The Kazidznlifdfialhonth Time Someone Has Asked If A Girl Was Interested By Some Biased Signs That The Perceiver (you) Wishes To See.....

Ss Is Here So That You Learn You Don't Need These Damn Indicators...go ****ing Ask Her Out Without The Reassurance Of A Couple Strangers

Just Do It
Use Your (_(_)====)
 

S.Y.L

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She seems intimidated, act friendly for a while, and then see how she reacts
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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TheEnergizer

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Girls love to stare at wierd guys and glance away when they look, so you must be really wierd. Not. why are you overanalyzing this? she likes you. and remember even if she didn't like you, whats there to lose in going for her anyway, its not like she's going to change her mind about you if she doesnt already like you.
 
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