"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Does she like me? I think I'm overthinking this

iCatch

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ok so the girl i talked about that initiated convo with me and then the next couple days didnt even say hi, well i talked to her and i think she likes me. i touch her arm and stuff when i walk up to her and say hey and she says hey back and smiles. when shes behind me in school if im walking up or down the stairs she puts her hand on my back. theres some other things but i cant think of them right now. i've been thinking about all of this way too much which is why i think i may have convinced myself that she likes me when she's actually just being nice.

what do you think? does she like me or did i overthink this?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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FirstInstinct

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Who gives a ****?

You want it, go for it. Overthinking -> procrastination -> masturbation.

Also leads to insecurity, locking up when you actually talk to her, and ultimate chode-dom.

when shes behind me in school if im walking up or down the stairs she puts her hand on my back.
Good enough. Go for it.
 

WalkingStick

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She definitely seems like she's interested. interest doesn't mean you have her, but you can go ahead and take it further.
 

Mr.Right

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iCatch said:
ok so the girl i talked about that initiated convo with me and then the next couple days didnt even say hi, well i talked to her and i think she likes me. i touch her arm and stuff when i walk up to her and say hey and she says hey back and smiles. when shes behind me in school if im walking up or down the stairs she puts her hand on my back. theres some other things but i cant think of them right now. i've been thinking about all of this way too much which is why i think i may have convinced myself that she likes me when she's actually just being nice.

what do you think? does she like me or did i overthink this?
just act like shes into you already that usually works.show alil confidance and dont study her every move.
 

Mr.Right

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just act like shes into you already,that usually works.show your confidance and dont study her like shes your one and only .....and that is a deffent no no
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Mr.Right

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sorry about the 2 messages im new here lol.goodluck my man im sure youl get her
 

The Grey Fox

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Mr.Right said:
just act like shes into you already that usually works.show alil confidance and dont study her every move.
hey man, you the same mr.right that goes on barry kirkey's radio show sometimes? love that show, puts the 'scene' into perspective.

OP - she's probably interested at least to some degree, even if your not 100% sure try and move things forward anyway, be flirty, gain rapport/comfort/connection when you can. Then grab your balls and ask her if she'd like to hang out sometime or w/e.

Just don't overanalyse and take everything to seriously, like posting a topic when a girl touches you :up:
 

dbot

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If you're not sure if a girl likes you or not, she probably does. This is true almost all of the time.

Remember, whether or not a girl likes you has nothing to do with whether or not a girl WOULD like you if you asked her out :D

If you're worried about whether or not she thinks you're attractive enough to date, then you are. Why? Because most people don't hang around with people they find unattractive. This applies to both girls and guys. And it's also a generalization, so there will be occasional exceptions.
 
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