"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Does she like me? I think I'm overthinking this

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ok so the girl i talked about that initiated convo with me and then the next couple days didnt even say hi, well i talked to her and i think she likes me. i touch her arm and stuff when i walk up to her and say hey and she says hey back and smiles. when shes behind me in school if im walking up or down the stairs she puts her hand on my back. theres some other things but i cant think of them right now. i've been thinking about all of this way too much which is why i think i may have convinced myself that she likes me when she's actually just being nice.

what do you think? does she like me or did i overthink this?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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FirstInstinct

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Who gives a ****?

You want it, go for it. Overthinking -> procrastination -> masturbation.

Also leads to insecurity, locking up when you actually talk to her, and ultimate chode-dom.

when shes behind me in school if im walking up or down the stairs she puts her hand on my back.
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Good enough. Go for it.
 
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She definitely seems like she's interested. interest doesn't mean you have her, but you can go ahead and take it further.
 
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iCatch said:
ok so the girl i talked about that initiated convo with me and then the next couple days didnt even say hi, well i talked to her and i think she likes me. i touch her arm and stuff when i walk up to her and say hey and she says hey back and smiles. when shes behind me in school if im walking up or down the stairs she puts her hand on my back. theres some other things but i cant think of them right now. i've been thinking about all of this way too much which is why i think i may have convinced myself that she likes me when she's actually just being nice.

what do you think? does she like me or did i overthink this?
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just act like shes into you already that usually works.show alil confidance and dont study her every move.
 
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just act like shes into you already,that usually works.show your confidance and dont study her like shes your one and only .....and that is a deffent no no
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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sorry about the 2 messages im new here lol.goodluck my man im sure youl get her
 
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Mr.Right said:
just act like shes into you already that usually works.show alil confidance and dont study her every move.
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hey man, you the same mr.right that goes on barry kirkey's radio show sometimes? love that show, puts the 'scene' into perspective.

OP - she's probably interested at least to some degree, even if your not 100% sure try and move things forward anyway, be flirty, gain rapport/comfort/connection when you can. Then grab your balls and ask her if she'd like to hang out sometime or w/e.

Just don't overanalyse and take everything to seriously, like posting a topic when a girl touches you :up:
 
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If you're not sure if a girl likes you or not, she probably does. This is true almost all of the time.

Remember, whether or not a girl likes you has nothing to do with whether or not a girl WOULD like you if you asked her out :D

If you're worried about whether or not she thinks you're attractive enough to date, then you are. Why? Because most people don't hang around with people they find unattractive. This applies to both girls and guys. And it's also a generalization, so there will be occasional exceptions.
 
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