"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Does she like me? Classic i know, but plz read

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So im in high school (freshman) and i wanna have sex (not gunna lie. ive dated girls before, but this girl just confuses me. anyways there is a girl who like says hi all the time to me, im just like hi back, but wtf does that mean? I sat to her once like in bio for like 1 month, but all we said was hi, hi, hi, hi. shes cute and all, but she is like an impossible girl, cause she has like nothing. no facebook, no phone, no myspace, u cant even talk to her out of school. should i give up? i mean shes really cute, but like is it worth it? i usually dont work too hard on girls....so yea.lol
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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NorwegianDJ

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Why are you talking about giving up before you've even tried? Hard work? Excuses.
Go talk to her, do something new, break the pattern.
 
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If it's 1 thing that I've learned it's that you have ACT based on your intentions ( what you want).
You GIVE to RECEIVE this is how it works.
to INVEST something, than you gain ( glory, fame, popularity, results, girls,... everything)

Norwegian has a point right there... Try. Try and succeed. Try and fail. But at least try! Damn, rejection is so much better than regret.
 
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trying2fit said:
So im in high school (freshman) and i wanna have sex (not gunna lie. ive dated girls before, but this girl just confuses me. anyways there is a girl who like says hi all the time to me, im just like hi back, but wtf does that mean? I sat to her once like in bio for like 1 month, but all we said was hi, hi, hi, hi. shes cute and all, but she is like an impossible girl, cause she has like nothing. no facebook, no phone, no myspace, u cant even talk to her out of school. should i give up? i mean shes really cute, but like is it worth it? i usually dont work too hard on girls....so yea.lol
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So if you like this girl as much as you claim, why haven't you said any more to her than just "hi"???
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You wont know if she likes you if you dont try...
 
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Enlighten me if theres something I missed, how do you know so mch about her if you've never spoken more than one word to her?

At least have a conversation with her to "feel her out". It doesn't make much sense to disqualify her with out talking/ hanging out with her.

In my opinion guys put too much thought into trying to figure out whether or not a girl likes them. Try figuring out whether or not you like her, or if she is at least tolerable. That's the first step. And then you can worry about how much she may like you. But without step 1, it's like you're trying to bake a cake without the ingredients.
 
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