"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Does she know what she's doing?

golf299

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here's the deal:

i met this girl about a month ago. about one week before we met she started dating this dude. sucks, huh?

the thing is that when we're together she is always using "me too" statements in regards to things i say, and she holds eye contact with a smile for a looong time. i mean, i can do pretty well with EC but she really is pushing the envelope. the only thing lacking is kino. i have gradually brought it on, but she's not a really touchy/feely person with anyone.

so what gives? i know that if i was doing the things she is doing it would be because i was interested in the girl. any suggestions on how to proceed? keep in mind: i must see this girl almost every day.

thanks guys!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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frivolousz21

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be friends

or lay it on my friend...and see how it goes..if it doenst work..then u know the drill!
 

golf299

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thanks....anyone else?
 

Crank_It_Up

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Originally posted by golf299
thanks....anyone else?
what's the difference between you and the guy she is dating? What did he do that you didn't?

Here's a clue... HE ASKED HER OUT ON A DATE !!! get it?
 

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Originally posted by golf299
here's the deal:

i met this girl about a month ago. about one week before we met she started dating this dude. sucks, huh?

the thing is that when we're together she is always using "me too" statements in regards to things i say, and she holds eye contact with a smile for a looong time. i mean, i can do pretty well with EC but she really is pushing the envelope. the only thing lacking is kino. i have gradually brought it on, but she's not a really touchy/feely person with anyone.

so what gives? i know that if i was doing the things she is doing it would be because i was interested in the girl. any suggestions on how to proceed? keep in mind: i must see this girl almost every day.

thanks guys!
Why does the fact that she's going on dates with another guy she met a week ago have anything to do with you? And why should she dump him if you've never even made a move? What do you mean "gradually brought on kino"? Do you mean you started touching her two or three weeks after you met her? LOL

To me, about one week before we met she started dating this dude. sucks, huh? sounds like a lame excuse not to act on your desires.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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golf299

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supposedly the guy was all about 'making it official'. so that is where it stands now. he's a mega-AFC, having cooked dinner for her 4 times in the first 2 weeks they were together.

maybe i'm seeing something that isnt there... we like to be around each other and have good laughs, etc... but i think she is infatuatued with his afc'ness right now...

it stands to reason that she will undoubtedly eventually tire of it and him. until then, onward.

comments?
 

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she will not tire of him as long as she has YOU to make up for all his weaknesses.

you make her laugh, you make her happy give her your time and attention

and every time she sees him he f*cks her HARD.

she is a happy women who is getting everything she needs between the both of you.

if you want her you need to pull the carpet out from under her.

stop allowing her access to YOU until she gets with the program.

ie. she becomes your ho.

this works because he current BF is a drop kick but she will NOT dump him while she has you to make up for his weaknesses.

when she is in limbo with no laughs, happy, whatever it is YOU THINK you give her that he doesn't she will search for another.

let her know the G O when you pull the carpet from under her PIMP style.

i think you have messed up from the start.

you should have played it from the start as if YOU DIDN'T CARE if she had a bf, and treated her the SAME way as if she was single with STRONG KINO etc and tapped that a$$.

YOU PLAYED THE FRIENDS ROLE NOW YOU STUCK

would a lion wait until her drop kick bf leaves ?

A LION WOULD TAKE WHAT HE WANTS !!!

only chance you got now is to come off as a pimp and lay it down straight for her ( doubt it will work cause you never hinted to her that you are a DJ ).

tell her to ring you when she wants to hook up and not before.

move on and find another chick and learn from it.

ACT LIKE A FRIEND GET A FRIENDS REWARD ( her complaining about her bf )

ACT LIKE A MAN AND GET A MANS REWARD ( her s*cking your d*ck )



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**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

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“ What are you Vanilla-bloody-Ice? “

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“ But if a ho wants to just be friends then don't waste your time. And I'm a debase character so your hooking up with her friend in front of her was sweet to my ears. “

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“First off - she is just another hor who has opened her legs to another man - you are no one special - and there are no "Greatest" to hors - you are just the next pimp in line!!! “

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“ You NEVER pay as a supplicative or bargaining measure, though. The reward that she gets for her affection is YOUR affection. The reward she gets for her sex is YOUR sex. The second you start buying her stuff to keep her around, keep her entertained in your presence, etc...you're compensating for not having what it takes to seduce the woman, and that's totally unacceptable. “
 
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