Does she hate me?

[ICaughtFire]

Do girl behaves like this if she really hates you??

* Always talk about me to her friends when they don't even care, mostly tellling them how much she hates me etc

* Flakey attitudes towards you, she may be fine and trying to be friendly to you for a day or two, but totally dislike you in another

* Follows me to a room with her friends but she doesn't make fun or diss me, she just pretends she had to do something in the room where i just went into, and came out not long after i left the room

* When she sees you she seems all pissed but her friends just laugh and smile at you as if she hating me is all funny and games

* Neutral eye contact when we met eachother in the corridor alone

* Always hang out with her friends in the corridor right outside of my classroom

Thx

 

[The Comeback Kid]

I think she's playing games.

I liked some chick recently (like a month ago) and she was the same way...only worse.

She did the whole "playing games" thing, but then it got real bad (worse than ull probably see). I ASKED HER OUT AND SHE SAID YES. Well, that was a lie. Immediately after:
-She blocks my AOL screenname
-Uses some friends as security to block my seeing/talking to her
-When I am walking out to my car as usual, this girl, who usually NEVER goes out to the cars (she's a Junior and only Seniors drive) hides behind the other cars so I don't see her. I was tempted to back hte bar into her, but held back lol.
-She avoids me at all costs, and it's noticible. Luckily, people think she's the crazy one.
-When she does look towards me and there is eye contact, there is a little fear in her eye - from what, I dunno.

So, I've seen this too. To be honest, she's probably playing games with you. And if I learned anything from my experience, it's to walk away...it's the only way the games will stop.

 

[ICaughtFire]

so do i just completely ignore what she is doing??

we used to be ex but things went bad and we decided to be friends but that didn't work i dunno maybe coz we actually still have feeligs for eachother but too timid and embrassed to admit to eachother

should i call her and talk about this?

 

[The Comeback Kid]

Originally posted by ICaughtFire
so do i just completely ignore what she is doing??

we used to be ex but things went bad and we decided to be friends but that didn't work i dunno maybe coz we actually still have feeligs for eachother but too timid and embrassed to admit to eachother

should i call her and talk about this?

Well, being an ex has to be different, but I still feel you should not put up with her games.

If you 100% sure that she has feelings for her, give her the "silent treatment" for a week (or a few days), which means you pretty much ignore anything she does (like her games) and if she likes you, she won't be able to take it, and that works to your advantage. Again, don't put up with her games.

DO NOT call her on this!! If you do, she'll have the control and you'll look like the weaker one.

Try using the silent treatment for a little while (it's hard, but you may have to do it) and see what happens. If she is playing too many games or you just don't "like" her anymore at some point, you can just walk away.