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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Does Scratching Herself Mean She's Attracted to You?

spinaroonie

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One of the most critical facets to any pickup is the ability to detect and interpet IOIs. Where a lot of guys fail comes from the inability to look out for these indicators of interest - whether conscious or subconscious - and escalate accordingly.

Yesterday, I stopped by a couple of salons at the local mall looking for my favourite hair wax. As with most salons, at the front booth were young attractive girls in their early 20s. The first girl answered my question, and began stroking her face with a fingernail the entire time. The second girl I asked raised her arm, exposed her armpit, and began scratching the side of her neck. Both made eye contact as they were doing this.

Moreover, now that I'm conscious of it, I've been noticing this scratching/stroking/fidgeting tendency with a lot with girls I've come across - surely not every girl I talk to has a horrendous itch.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZMRs73-2j8A


In this video, Mystery discusses common IOIs. He mentions that scratching/stroking is a subtle, subconscious indicator of interest and a guage of attraction. Why this seemingly bizarre behaviour? Mystery harkens it back to our evolution from primates, and apes grooming.

So guys, if you're picking up a girl and notice her scratching/stroking her wrist, shoulder, face, or neck as you talk to her, it means that she is, at least on a subconscious level, attracted to you. Game on boys.
 

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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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just when you thought you've heard it all.....
 

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spinaroonie said:
In this video, Mystery discusses common IOIs. He mentions that scratching/stroking is a subtle, subconscious indicator of interest and a guage of attraction. Why this seemingly bizarre behaviour? Mystery harkens it back to our evolution from primates, and apes grooming.
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More psuedo science....

Itching or scratching probably indicates that she needs a closer relationship with soap and water.
 

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Sounds like they contracted lice from previous clients, or have herpes. These were some dirty *****es.
 

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I don't know if scratching herself is an indicator of interest....

But i know if she starts fisting herself in front of you - it's normally a good time to go for the kiss....

:rolleyes:
 

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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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one of the biggest issues with game is that guys spend way too long trying to analysis IOI's ..

was that an IOI?
how much did she scratch
...she touched her hair!
OMFG she likes me!

oh yeh and Mystery Method - the ultimate way to be a "Social Robot"
interpret IOI...compute IOI...respond with NEG...output NEG...wait for input...
fu.ck that

bukowski_merit said:
I don't know if scratching herself is an indicator of interest....

But i know if she starts fisting herself in front of you - it's normally a good time to go for the kiss....

:rolleyes:
the social robot in him would still be trying to compute it
input = "fisting"
input does not compute
system crash.....
[goes home with **** in hand...whilst a natural guy just closed her]
 

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kingsam said:
one of the biggest issues with game is that guys spend way too long trying to analysis IOI's ..

was that an IOI?
how much did she scratch
...she touched her hair!
OMFG she likes me!

oh yeh and Mystery Method - the ultimate way to be a "Social Robot"
interpret IOI...compute IOI...respond with NEG...output NEG...wait for input...
fu.ck that


the social robot in him would still be trying to compute it
input = "fisting"
input does not compute
system crash.....
[goes home with **** in hand...whilst a natural guy just closed her]

lmao! For real though. I'm not sure if the OP is replacing touching herself for scratching but I did read a book called "Undercover Sex Signals" and it mentions a lot of these signs
 

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lol @ kingsam douching up this thread.

Watch the video with Mystery, the girl to his left is DTF... she engages in all the IOIs he talks about including the wrist scratching and arm exposing/neck touching and hair stroking. She even admits herself to being guilty of them.

Guys should learn to read women's signals better, in particular the subconscious ones.
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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bukowski_merit said:
I don't know if scratching herself is an indicator of interest....

But i know if she starts fisting herself in front of you - it's normally a good time to go for the kiss....

:rolleyes:
fist close
 

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Dude today this girl blinked twice in rapid succession when she said my name. Does that mean DTF right now or DTF tonight? :rolleyes:

spinaroonie said:
Guys should learn to read women's signals better, in particular the subconscious ones.
My man,

you just made a thread asking "Does Scratching Herself Mean She's Attracted to You?"

SHHHH.
 

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spinaroonie said:
lol @ kingsam douching up this thread.

Watch the video with Mystery, the girl to his left is DTF... she engages in all the IOIs he talks about including the wrist scratching and arm exposing/neck touching and hair stroking. She even admits herself to being guilty of them.

Guys should learn to read women's signals better, in particular the subconscious ones.
ok whatever dude
 
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i've heard that if they itch their vagina, it means their turned on as well.
 

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Aazman said:
i've heard that if they itch their vagina, it means their turned on as well.
lol

Fellas let us not complicate ourselves. Just buy her an ice cream cone and watch her closely. If she takes a big, sensous bite of that cone like if she was eating the most delicious ice cream of all time, and all while looking at you straight in the eye then that means she wants you!
 

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Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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f283000 said:
lol

Fellas let us not complicate ourselves. Just buy her an ice cream cone and watch her closely. If she takes a big, sensous bite of that cone like if she was eating the most delicious ice cream of all time, and all while looking at you straight in the eye then that means she wants you!
what about frozen yogurt?

I smell a sub-topic.
 

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I cant remember when I laughed & enjoyed reading the responses in a SS thread, as much as this one.
Thanks guys... I needed that! In an unprecidented action here: <reps to all of you gents>!!
 

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kingsam said:
one of the biggest issues with game is that guys spend way too long trying to analysis IOI's ..

was that an IOI?
how much did she scratch
...she touched her hair!
OMFG she likes me!

oh yeh and Mystery Method - the ultimate way to be a "Social Robot"
interpret IOI...compute IOI...respond with NEG...output NEG...wait for input...
fu.ck that


the social robot in him would still be trying to compute it
input = "fisting"
input does not compute
system crash.....
[goes home with **** in hand...whilst a natural guy just closed her]
I'm really perceptive and I always notice these small things too. But you shouldn't try to think too much of it because while it may be an IOI, there's a good chance it might also not be.

Just do your thing and if she shows IOI then you'll know.
 

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If she's scratching herself and she whinces while she's scratching herself, you might want to reassess your priorities here.


Now seriously, if we're being told that "attraction should always be assumed"... shouldn't that alone mean that IOI's are meaningless. I just think that are IOI's are men's excuse to validate their reasoning in walking up to a woman and talking to them, when in reality, none of this is needed. All you should need to walk up to a woman are a pair and a decent vocabulary with a handful of confidence.

Why sit here and analyze whether any particular movement means anything when we're supposed to believe that we're attracting them just by existing?
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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