"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Does race play a part?

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Isn't a big part of attraction mystery? One thing ethnic guys have over white guys is culture, so if you can introduce a girl into a world that's different than hers, you've got one advantage right there. If you have a weird accent as well, you can get rid of it with some therapy.

I've got it better than all you guys though because I'm

a) White

2) Multi-cultured

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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LOL. Just to clarify to everyone...I'm not a FOB. I was born and raised in the U.S with an northern east accent (New York).
 

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...Yes. Stop hanging around with people who have the stoner accent.
 

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Where in the US, lol? Nothing like that here in the East Coast that I've noticed so far.
Yeah I'm from the East Coast. Being Asian doesnt do you good, especially if you're AFC, until you learn to spin it around.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Sometimes I fear color matters too much. Lately I've found myself wondering if I'm just too dark at the end of the day to get any decent looking chick

I'm some shade of brown that is lighter to some and darker to others. I wonder how I would fare in northern europe or latin america. It certainly isn't going well in the states
 

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Well, asians are known for being wealthy

atleast thats good lol. Asians are the wealthiest demographic in America.
 

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SeymourCake said:
Does it matter what ethnicity you are? Humans are humans right? In a multi-ethnic country most of us live in now (United States here), is 2011 a time where we could actually be seen as any other person? We all come in different shades of skin color, different colors of hair and hair types and other sorts of physical features and culture...

Race only matters to people who aren't open minded, depending on the area you live race can be a huge issue. If you live in New York or Cali people are gonna be more progressive and open minded. If you live in Mississippi then interracial dating is gonna be a nightmare

My question is, do women have a preference when it comes who their seeking? I'm Indian btw. Women love alpha males, correct? But would a pack of white, black, hispanic, or oriental woman want an Indian alpha male as a mate?...Or any race for that matter. Are there boundaries of ethnicity when it comes who's worthy of being an alpha?

If you are a true alpha male and i mean you have your shyt together, physicaly/financially/and spiritual then why not? you would be "that dude" and the cream of the crop and yes women would graviate to you!

I think the media plays apart on who's beautiful, good looking or not. In America, white people dominate the hollywood, magazines, entertainment business scene. Hell, even in India. Bollywood is everywhere and it's filled with light skinned Indians from the northern part of the nation and they dominate the Bollywood scene which is why they're considered to be perhaps better looking than those dark skinned (Dravidian) ethnic who live in the south.
Don't fall for the media hype mate, they want you to believe one thing when its not true. For instance every white chick is dating a black guy :rolleyes: not true look at the fake publicity Chelsea Lately and 50Cent are doing now. I really don't believe their dating, the shameless name plugs she always does, the corny twitter pics

My point is the media has "their" own agenda, work on improving your self as man. physically/financially/spiritually it helps a lot and race wont matter when women see you got your shyt together on all levels!
 
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