"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Does Play A Few Hours Console Games On Weekdays Nights Make U More Antisocial

metrhoe

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CAUSE U PLAYING VIDEOGAMES INSTEAD OF DOING OTHER THINGS, AND PLAYING VIDEOGAMES SEEMS TO MAKE U LESS CONFIDENT AND SOCIAL
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What? Hell no. Confidence comes from within and reflects your personality around others. Not what hobbies you like.
 

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pfft no. It makes you MORE confident because you beat that a-hole boss on a particular level so you can strut around like you're a king.

But seriously, who cares? What are you going to do, assign all spare time socially interacting? If console gaming is your thing, go for it.

If you get to the point where you're forgetting your bodily functions, or you've gone several days without showering, yes it may be a problem.
 

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i played a videogame 16 hours straight once, does that make me alpha male?
 

Triple X

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The way I look at it, so long as you have a balance in your life (ie going out as well as playing computer games etc)... then there's really no problem.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Triple X

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I've just realised your a troll. Go away and die.
 
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