Dhoulmagus
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I am only limited to freshman/sophomore parties and bars and I feel too old. Most of my friends are 21 now, so they go to the better bars.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Does picking up girls in college get easier after turning 21
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Definitely gets easier because you add the element of legal alcohol. (you're more loose, she's more loose, beautiful stuff) It's still up to you to put yourself out there and be your own DJ.Dhoulmagus said:
No it doesnt get easier. If anything, you graduate to bars where girls are 21-25 and youre the small fish.
Im 23 now but when i first turned 21 and told girls my age they called me a "baby".. I went through **** test after **** test.. So sharpen your game up young grasshopper. Prepare yourself physically and mentally
Im 23 now but when i first turned 21 and told girls my age they called me a "baby".. I went through **** test after **** test.. So sharpen your game up young grasshopper. Prepare yourself physically and mentally
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.