"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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characternote said:
yes, this is a known issue, really.
Back in the GLL days on the forum this was discussed. At the time, some of the 'coaches' (can't remember which ones, might have been someone like that scammer john anthony?) basically said 'you just need to get her on a date. So photoshop your pics so taht you look like a genuine chad'. (They even suggested just using a good looking guys pics from memory lol)'#. The idea was that even if you turned up she thought you were ugly, now that she was with you and you had her ear, you just need to 'run game' (use pushpull lines and whatever else that particular coach taught as 'attraction material') and then you'd get her of course

All that happened was that guys would meet girls who were just simply not attracted to them and the dates would be brutal lol. Waste of time and money for everyone

So yes, at most one should very mildly filter their pics if at all, tbh.
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wtf strategy is this man, to catfish women?

and then we complain that online dating went to sh1t

I wonder why :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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