Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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does no contact work for the women too?

boynamedsue

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I'm just wondering if your doing no contact on a girl, does it make it easier for them to move on too? Obviously it helps for us guys to move on, if a girl does no contact does it have the same effect for them?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Scars

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It's possible. But girls are also very curious creatures. Have you ever had an ex "check up" on you weeks, months, maybe even YEARS later? I know I have. They will come back in every now and then to make sure they still have you around their finger. They get a kick out of knowing that your life is miserable without them and that you're still dependent on them. They don't want to see you progress or improve because they want to rationalize to themselves that they made the right decision by dumping your ass. If you show no sign of needing her dependence or display a higher image of yourself then you did before then you will see an increase in interest and she will start approaching you more. The second you show a sign of cowering back into her twisted little arms she will lose all respect for you. Most guys will fall into this trap at least one time in their life.

Don't dig through your old garbage man. You're doing no contact for a reason. To get over her. Stop wondering what she is doing or where her thoughts are at. Start spinning more plates and get your head back on straight mate.

Good luck.

-Scars
 

Cinamon

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Yeah, no contact works for us too. There is always that curiousity there to know what they are up to, are they seeing someone else etc, occassionaly a bit of spying but ultimately we try to avoid making contact again.

If you are doing no contact, it will probably make her detest/resent you which will help her move on too.
 
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