You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
BINGO!Espi said:There is no such thing as an ugly millionaire.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Agree with you. Easy money = easy morals = sluts.Poonani Maker said:Of course it does. Why do you think that All of us 99%ers are constantly being devalued by lining the pockets of "the club" of bankers on wall st, Europe, etc? They knew early on, that $$$ = the best women to fvck. It's Easy to purchase a wife, so many women are wh0res (whether they'd like to admit it or not). Money turns men into wh0res as well because it's a direct current flow to hot women, especially in this amoral society we live in today, more than Ever! This is not necessarily just an American phenomenon, but transcends all women worldwide. Sure, I'll lend you money I don't have, you pay me interest, then when you finally go bankrupt, That's perfectly fine by me, cause I never had the money I was loaning you to begin with. The debt bubble is about to burst, may take another 6 months, but burst it will, when people finally wake up and realize this great big ponzi scheme all across the world called Debt. Here's an example of what I'm talkin about: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LXQDk_Qgy_s&feature=g-u-u
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kQ8fHvPAhAc&feature=g-u-u
We are nearing the end...buy all the gold and silver you can, by any means necessary, even if you are broke!
Bullsh1t!Vice said:Everyone else said everything you need to know.
There's two types of rich guys:
Be aware of being the "provider guy" though, because you'll attract women who have *****d around in their early 20's and then decided to finally settle down with a stable guy who has no game, overly serious, they know he can't go out and cheat on them since he's been conditioned by society not to. Take away his money, and no woman will want to be with him because he's so lame.
Fun, rich guys are the ones that they like to sl*t around with in their prime years. Take away his money, and he can still be fun.
There's a few other factors too.
One of which is that women will be attracted to guys who have the POTENTIAL of becoming rich, because they exhibit ambition, drive, motivation, etc.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
why the hate?SecondHalf said:Bullsh1t!
There are some rich guys who only will date established, successful women.
The d1ck who's established and prefers dating hair dressers, beauty consultants, admins, clerks, loser-babes is ... yep, an idiot.
Kind of like the asisaphile. Where bigotry gives him his ... "edge".
Best add a third category, the rich guy who wants an equal.
Best not to envy, better to achieve for oneself.
SH
There is no hate!Burroughs said:why the hate?
a rich man who wants to fvck hot young things and cvm on their faces multiple times should be applauded...
"d1ck" "asiaphile bigot" no need for shaming language...we leave that to the ugly bishes who cant get none![]()
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.