"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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does money , new car , new home really get woman these days

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A lot of men say the much you get rich the much the number of women that flirt with you will increase .
any one agree with this or it is a myth today ?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Those things can help, but there are no hard and fast rules. The best way to improve your chances with women is to take control of your life and make things happen yourself.
 

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it will attract SOME women. some might be high quality, some might be gold diggers, just depends. I've also seen COUNTLESS women date guys with no car, no job, and lived with his parents too.
 

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and a lot guys that have all of that still fail miserably on the first date.

they think it's all they need, forgetting that other things like personality and not being an afc matter.
 

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If you are white..over 6"1' ..and have a lean swimmers build you can live with your parents and still bang chicks

If you fall short of this 'chick ideal' than yes money and houses will help you...but they will likely be gold diggers who will fvck the pool boy in the POOL YOU BOUGHT

attraction cannot be negotiated unless you have MASSIVE SOCIAL PROOF

best thing is to be a hollywood star but that ain't so easy :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Probably attracts women who want a guy with money, a new home, and a new car.

If you want women who like you for other qualities, you might want to sell those instead
 

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Money, toys, looks, its all the same. Every little bit.helps.
 

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When I meet up with a woman who drives a new Mercedes and I meet her in my new Mercedes, her interest level goes way up.
When I bring her to my down town core home in Toronto, where she doesn't have to drive far from her place, it makes an impression.
I'm not willing to date a cashier, hair dresser or waitress, I want an economically equivalent or better. Most women seeking my age group are pretty immune to game. They want an equivalent or better partner too.
Been burned by too many young .... gamers.

So yes, money talks, at a certain point!

SH
 

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Of course it does. Why do you think that All of us 99%ers are constantly being devalued by lining the pockets of "the club" of bankers on wall st, Europe, etc? They knew early on, that $$$ = the best women to fvck. It's Easy to purchase a wife, so many women are wh0res (whether they'd like to admit it or not). Money turns men into wh0res as well because it's a direct current flow to hot women, especially in this amoral society we live in today, more than Ever! This is not necessarily just an American phenomenon, but transcends all women worldwide. Sure, I'll lend you money I don't have, you pay me interest, then when you finally go bankrupt, That's perfectly fine by me, cause I never had the money I was loaning you to begin with. The debt bubble is about to burst, may take another 6 months, but burst it will, when people finally wake up and realize this great big ponzi scheme all across the world called Debt. Here's an example of what I'm talkin about: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LXQDk_Qgy_s&feature=g-u-u

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kQ8fHvPAhAc&feature=g-u-u

We are nearing the end...buy all the gold and silver you can, by any means necessary, even if you are broke!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Poonani Maker said:
Of course it does. Why do you think that All of us 99%ers are constantly being devalued by lining the pockets of "the club" of bankers on wall st, Europe, etc? They knew early on, that $$$ = the best women to fvck. It's Easy to purchase a wife, so many women are wh0res (whether they'd like to admit it or not). Money turns men into wh0res as well because it's a direct current flow to hot women, especially in this amoral society we live in today, more than Ever! This is not necessarily just an American phenomenon, but transcends all women worldwide. Sure, I'll lend you money I don't have, you pay me interest, then when you finally go bankrupt, That's perfectly fine by me, cause I never had the money I was loaning you to begin with. The debt bubble is about to burst, may take another 6 months, but burst it will, when people finally wake up and realize this great big ponzi scheme all across the world called Debt. Here's an example of what I'm talkin about: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LXQDk_Qgy_s&feature=g-u-u

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kQ8fHvPAhAc&feature=g-u-u

We are nearing the end...buy all the gold and silver you can, by any means necessary, even if you are broke!
Agree with you. Easy money = easy morals = sluts.
 

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Everyone else said everything you need to know.

There's two types of rich guys:

Be aware of being the "provider guy" though, because you'll attract women who have *****d around in their early 20's and then decided to finally settle down with a stable guy who has no game, overly serious, they know he can't go out and cheat on them since he's been conditioned by society not to. Take away his money, and no woman will want to be with him because he's so lame.

Fun, rich guys are the ones that they like to sl*t around with in their prime years. Take away his money, and he can still be fun.

There's a few other factors too.

One of which is that women will be attracted to guys who have the POTENTIAL of becoming rich, because they exhibit ambition, drive, motivation, etc.
 

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Well, women figure out where to hang out to be around guys who MUST have money. If you go to those places, and you are not bad looking, the women will be all over you.
 

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Vice said:
Everyone else said everything you need to know.

There's two types of rich guys:

Be aware of being the "provider guy" though, because you'll attract women who have *****d around in their early 20's and then decided to finally settle down with a stable guy who has no game, overly serious, they know he can't go out and cheat on them since he's been conditioned by society not to. Take away his money, and no woman will want to be with him because he's so lame.

Fun, rich guys are the ones that they like to sl*t around with in their prime years. Take away his money, and he can still be fun.

There's a few other factors too.

One of which is that women will be attracted to guys who have the POTENTIAL of becoming rich, because they exhibit ambition, drive, motivation, etc.
Bullsh1t!
There are some rich guys who only will date established, successful women.
The d1ck who's established and prefers dating hair dressers, beauty consultants, admins, clerks, loser-babes is ... yep, an idiot.
Kind of like the asisaphile. Where bigotry gives him his ... "edge".

Best add a third category, the rich guy who wants an equal.
Best not to envy, better to achieve for oneself.

SH
 

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Generally speaking, if you are in your 30s or later, have a decent job, and want to date a woman who also has an education and decent job, she is going to expect her guy to have at least an equivalent lifestyle. For instance, if she owns her own home and you live in a 900 square foot apartment with sparse furnishings, her attraction to you is going to decrease the first time you bring her to your pad. It's that simple. It doesn't mean she is a gold digger, but it does mean she expects you to lead, and her feeling will be that she is leading you if you live like a 22 year old bachelor. Being lead by a man involves more than just the man's game; her impression of his lifestyle based on his possessions is also a part of it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"Anyone who said that money can't buy happiness either didn't have any or didn't spend it on the right things."
 

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SecondHalf said:
Bullsh1t!
There are some rich guys who only will date established, successful women.
The d1ck who's established and prefers dating hair dressers, beauty consultants, admins, clerks, loser-babes is ... yep, an idiot.
Kind of like the asisaphile. Where bigotry gives him his ... "edge".

Best add a third category, the rich guy who wants an equal.
Best not to envy, better to achieve for oneself.

SH
why the hate?

a rich man who wants to fvck hot young things and cvm on their faces multiple times should be applauded...

"d1ck" "asiaphile bigot" no need for shaming language...we leave that to the ugly bishes who cant get none :)
 

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For a relationship after 25 you absolutely need money, A car, and A living space.

It doesn't have to be new, just comfortable.

Are their women out their who moisten at the very thought of alot of money, a NEW car, and a NEW home. Absolutely. But it's pretty AFC to go chasing them with these things. Plus there's no guarantee you will get them with status symbols and status symbols alone.
 

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I budget 10% of my income to spend on dating women.

I figure if I were married I'd be lucky to get a 10% allowance.
 

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Burroughs said:
why the hate?

a rich man who wants to fvck hot young things and cvm on their faces multiple times should be applauded...

"d1ck" "asiaphile bigot" no need for shaming language...we leave that to the ugly bishes who cant get none :)
There is no hate!
I hate few things, this one doesn't qualify.
I'm the guy (demographically speaking) potentially being talked about here. The two categories upset me, and rightfully so, they were ignorant.
Regarding the shaming language ... K, ... point taken. Yep, not constructive. Good catch!

Can't really comment on the "applauded" thing, just me, but I'm not preaching the right or wrongs here! People can live any way they choose!
I try not to judge.... try!

SH
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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