"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Does living with siblings ruin your chances

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NeedToImprove

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of getting a girlfriend?

I dont know if any of you shares a house with your brother/sister, but a gf may find it awkward. truth is im getting tired day by day of living with my brother and my sister (whose nervous temperament is always clashing with mine).

So i can imagine a woman not liking it either, no privacy, too much meddling in my/her life, etc.

things here where i live portugal are not easy, due to the economic recession its very hard for a single person to rent a flat, you need to share it with someone, so im doing that with the help of my brother and sister, but it's driving me nuts.

i need to get a gf asap or get a better job (which atm is not easy) as they are driving me nuts. i even think living on your own is way better.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I have never not dated a guy because he lived with a sibling or roommate.
 
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i need to get a gf asap

Dont know if you meant this so that you could move in with one, or just to get one period....but either way its a bad mindset to have. Its ok to desire something, but when you put this much emphasis on something its unhealthy. Youll end up settling for a girl below your standards....or find it impossible to attain one because youll wreak of desperation.
 
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