“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Does lifting weights make you look younger?

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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I am 40... going on 41 and still pull girls in their 20’s. I have always lifted weights but there have been times where my diet was garbage. I have a picture from when I was 32 and I look horrible... puffy face... looked old. When I combine weight training, cardio and a great diet I look much... much younger.

I just took two entire weeks off of all training and went to the beach. I planned this as a good time to rest and recover from training. I ate as much as I wanted and actually ate mostly foods I forbid myself from having the rest of the year. Chicken parm, bbq ribs, tons of pasta and fried foods... a ton of alcohol. It showed in my appearance... I lost all definition... vascularity vanished... my face looks puffy and swollen... so yes... to look your best... sleep, training and diet can make you look 10 years younger!
 

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I'm about to go to lift weights. Lifting weight is a part of picking up women well. The more muscular you are, the easier it will be to get women to have sex with you. Less game is need to seduce when muscular. Men not overly muscular can benefit from lifting weights. Lifting is good for testosterone, especially when combined with no porn, no mbate, a good diet, and 7+ hours of sleep.
 

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Definteky plays a big part.

Although my 3 year younger brother who hasn't touched alcohol, cigarettes or drugs, not spent excessive time in sun his whole life, trains religiously, perfect clean diet looks more worn/older than me.
 

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Absolutely - up to a certain age.
Guys will hit 2-3 walls generally as they age.
Once they hit that last wall though, they'll still be attractive to women close to their age but no longer be attractive to the really young ones.

Lifting, more so keeps the the skin tight, which tends to loosen the older you get. So besides a good body, it naturally tightens up your face and makes you look younger as a result.
 

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Absolutely - up to a certain age.
Guys will hit 2-3 walls generally as they age.
Once they hit that last wall though, they'll still be attractive to women close to their age but no longer be attractive to the really young ones.

Lifting, more so keeps the the skin tight, which tends to loosen the older you get. So besides a good body, it naturally tightens up your face and makes you look younger as a result.
Yes, also remaining lean helps with that. Most men over 40 are going to be late teens bf % at best by the time they reach early 40's.
 

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Yes, also remaining lean helps with that. Most men over 40 are going to be late teens bf % at best by the time they reach early 40's.
I agree with you but I've seen the "skinny fat" body types all too often amongst the older crowd to know that you MUST stay lean AND lift weights to appear attractive. Guys that only diet still has loose flabby skin most noticeable at the pools/beaches.
 
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I agree with you but I've seen the "skinny fat" body types all too often amongst the older crowd to know that you MUST stay lean AND lift weights to appear attractive. Guys that only diet still has loose flabby skin most noticeable at the pools/beaches.
goes without saying, massive advocate of weight training for health and looks.
 

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I am age 44 however I don't look a day over 34.. And this mostly down to clean diet (unless it's cheat day) gym/training 5x per week and one day of cycling long distance cardio.

Drinking lots of water certainly helps.. As for muscles and the ladies? Yes it's definitely get you a few more points SMV wise.

Infact I have piled on the muscle in the last 3-4 weeks and when I am out & about I get many looks from females & even dudes.
 
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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