"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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does it matter?.......who the F*ck cares, BE HAPPY, BE SATISFIED!!!!!!!!!

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Lately I have been reading many different post asking if, if looks matter, if nationality matters, if size matters, if money matters.
THIS IS ALL INSECURITY, in the end what matters are that you are alive, that you are happy, that you are satisfied, and that you have confidence.

now to answer all the questions of.......if it matters
here is one..............
who the f*ck cares?

what do women want? what do women need?

i don't give a rat's *ss, i want to know how i can get what i want in life................oh wait i know,
confidence
perseverance
strong spirit (never quiting)
just going out there and doing what i want to do

how about that, stop asking if looks matter, if size matters, if hair matters, if height matters, if weight matters, if money matters, if personality matters.

YES THEY DO MATTER
you would get laid all the time if you are, rich, tall, cute, manly, outgoing, funny, confident, have style, popular, have a 8 inch penis, and the list goes on and on and on.

now you could be obsesing on what, would make you perfect. OR YOU COULD TAKE WHAT YOU HAVE AND RUN WITH IT.
life is in your brain, in your thoughts in your perseption. you can see the bad things, the wrong things, the negative things OR YOU COULD SEE THE POSITVIE THINGS

negative= you are short. now you ask yourself am i good enough, if i was taller may be...............it would be better. ok..........so you're short what can you do about it? nothing so whay worry?
now you have two options
1 be insecure about it, wish you were taller and beat yourself up for it
2- embrace it, you cant change it accept it and do your best with what you have

negative= you are ugly. now what can you do about it?
1 beat yourself up for it, cry, be depressed, apply for a job at the zoo,
2 you can dress better, work out, and get a plastic surgery..........or simply accept your looks, embrace who YOU are, do your best with what YOU HAVE.

negative= are black, you are mexican, you are white, you are asian, you are indigenous, you are green, you are yellow, you are purple, you are rainbow color, you are hidu, I DONT KNOW WHAT THE F*CK YOU ARE, and i dont care...........................how about stop whinning about your nationality, because you can't change it. so work with it accept it embrace it. it is part of WHO YOU ARE.
IN THE END WE ARE ALL HUMAN

negative= you don't have money, what can you do about it.........go to school, work, invest, research what you can do with your money and do it.


but let me tell you something, in the end it doesn't matter what you have, human nature will always tell you " you want something different"
if you are rich. you are not happy because money doesn't buy everything, you wish you could trust people and see if they want you for who you are, or for the money
If you are poor, you wish you were rich
if you are white, you wished you were black
if you are black, you wished you were white
if you are afraid of even talking to girls, you wish you had the balzz
if you can approach, you wish you could number close
if you number close, you wish you could get a date
if you get dates, you wish you could get laid
if you get laid, you wish you would find the one
if you find the ONE, you wish you had MORE
if you have MORE, you wish you had love and could be loyal
if you have love and loyalty, you will think of something else to wish for.

IT IS HUMAN NATURE, YOU WILL NEVER BE TRULY HAPPY.
ENJOY THE MOMMENT!!!,
BE HAPPY WITH WHAT YOU HAVE!!!!
ACCEPT WHO YOU ARE!!!!!!!

it is perfectly okay to have ambition but live every day, and enjoy everyday, be happy every day. for no day is the same as the last.

now stop worrying about what you DON'T HAVE
and IMPROVE what you DO have, you will be a happier man.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Very True!

I think that all people that end up succeeding think this way.
 

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thank god someone wrote this.. i was sick of the threads.. does good look matter

lmao it was gettin on my neveres..

why be something else? when u can be yourself and work with what you have
 

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Good post.

I always hear from people, "I just want to be happy." Always from people with a fridge full of food and a roof over their head. People who say that will never be happy because they will always want something more or be something different. The first step toward living a happy life is accepting the fact that, most of the time, life sucks.

Wishing will get you nowhere. Take the hand you are dealt and do your best with it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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i dunno about u guys but life is awesome im loving it

get a hobbie going or be like me and get addicted from going to the gym hehe
 

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life IS GOOD!!!!
but a lot of people don't realize what they have, and the potentital the have.
they rather spend life wishing they were some one else, or had something more. sad part is they will never be happy unless they accept themselves.

you don't need to be PERFECT to have women, YOU DON'T NEED A PERFECT GAME. all you really need to do is getting out there and actually TALKING TO THEM.
 
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When I first started doing approaches in 2004 I didn't bathe much, had bad oral hygiene, wore the same brand/size/color shirt everyday & knew nothing about psychology and social interaction. Nonetheless women still liked being approached by me about 1/3 of the time that I did it. They wouldn't go out with me or anything, but they still enjoyed the approach.
 

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A good reminder...
Respect!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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yeah a lot of people base their confidence in their looks or make excuses because of their looks, naitionality, hair color.

dont make up excuses, you have to work with what your mama gave you,
in other words dont just biatch about it. DO SOMETHING.
 
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