Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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DOES IT MATTER WHAT DJ's LOOK LIKE

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Last night was my first night truly out after a breakup with my 4 yr LTR 2 mnths ago. I started to talk up girls to get a sense of my confidence and skills cause its been a while. Sure enough I had no prob with the approach, opener & keeping their interest. I lost interest though cause their personalities were so dull, which was bad cause I started acting like a **** to them...or is that a good thing? lol
In any case it felt good knowing I haven't lose my abilities

My question:
I am a 37yr old guy who shaves his head completely bald. Im in great shape & I'm good looking but I was wondering whats the consensus on looks relating to hooking up. How important do you guys feel it is?

I personally don't give a ****! But I wanted to see if there's any success stories from guys who really looked, smelled or acted like **** but were still able to take home a hottie. lol

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You're just being insecure about your baldness, that's whats unattractive about it.

I dont believe that looks matter much, I think they matter some. I think your shape matters the most in the looks department.

My examples for you would be from RSD:
HPRJ: He's bald and goes to college, lays an enourmous amounts of chicks. http://www.rsdnation.com/node/135273

Tyler is the guy who made RSD. He gets ass, but has settled down. http://luxxxury.co.cc/getattachment/Tyler-Durden/rsd128xt8.jpg.aspx

Ozzie is one of the instructors in RSD: http://media.photobucket.com/image/ozzie rsd/rsdnation/ozzie.jpg

Papa, also an instructor: http://www.rsdworldsummit.com/images/clip_image001.jpg

Basicly, looks doesn't matter, as these guys are proven to have MASSIVE success in life and with girls.
 

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Oh, wow. I opened this thread expecting 20 posts arguing with each other and the OP just being ignored in the middle of it all, lol.

Neil Strauss was bald, and he did fine, if his word is to be believed.. But then again Tyler is a messed up crazyguy if Neil is to be believed.

EDIT: My max posts number was reached (Again? I only posted 1.. weird function.) and @ below: While there isn't really a specific reason, some of these PUA people wrote books and are out for money. I don't know any personally but there's been a lot of pointing fingers and making each other out to be nutters, etc. PUA's don't really seem to be the most honest or trustworthy people to me, to be honest. That's the impression I get from some of the "big names". Tl : Dr When you don't know them well and they're out for money some healthy skepticism is good. There has been conflicting smears with them so skepticism is again good.*

*Neil made Tyler out to be a creepy dude in his book, some people has a lot of bad things to say about Mystery and Neil, some people say bootcamps are sometimes scams/fakes, etc. I heard a lot of bad pointing fingers at each other and that just makes me suspicious.
 
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Thx for the reply guys. Well I usually have great game with women. thats how I was able to land a 22 yr old model ..but my mistake was staying in a LTR with A PSYCHO!!!

& now that i've been out of the game a while & newly skinheaded lol just wanna see if it really matters.

NorwegianDJ: Don't know about RSD but I'll have to start checkin it out thank u

JustLurk : You seem to have a hint of scepticism with these DJ guys? Are they not to be believed for some specific reason?
 

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Your game is on point and you are in good shape, you will do fine out there. :yes:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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