"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Does it ever annoy you how much power girls have?

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
She can't have what you don't give her.
again, this is only about you.

this does NOTHING to nullify her power in the general sense in society, in a bar, etc.

she still has tremendous power. just not over you.

what you're saying is kinda akin to saying that bill gates is poor because you personally will not sell him your hamburgers.

lotta other hamburger stands.

delta
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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st_99 said:
You may not let her have power over "you" but she does indeed have power because you're not bangin her and you know you wish you were.
You see, this is the problem you guys have. You want to bang every HB on the planet and of course you can't. The fact that you want to is diminishing any power you may have. What makes it worse is that you all are worrying about it. This lends itself to a post that a woman wrote a while back that said that the average guy is a slave to pvssy.
 

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It's much better off being a guy. There are so much downsides to being a woman like losing your looks and going through labor. Hence teh reason why they are so high maintenance.

I'd say the only power women have over men is sex. Women can very much go on months w/o it...it's just insane, i know a few girls that are capable of it.
Without reproduction, passing on genes, sex. women are at most useless to men as are their emotional engine. ...dont even mention, w/o their almighty makeup...their looks rate just about easily average or worse compared to rating a guy's looks.

Women are on a pedestal in this day and age because society has created this dilemna. It's our job as a DJ to knock em down.
 

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The_Reaper said:
I mean, the attractive ones - hell even the unnatractive ones - can get sex so fukkin easily! Most of their male friends would jump straight into bed with them if they had the opportunity. That there is POWER.
Who cares?

Why are you so jealous? Does it really matter? What do you think is going to happen if you continue being jealous of these chicks' "percieved" aura of power?


Instead of wasting your energy and time thinking of this negative crap, go out there and focus on making yourself MORE powerful than these b*tches. Work out, make money, get experience f*cking them (start at the bottom if you must and work up), and get connections.
 
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The_Reaper said:
I mean, the attractive ones - hell even the unnatractive ones - can get sex so fukkin easily! Most of their male friends would jump straight into bed with them if they had the opportunity. That there is POWER.
This does not equate to "power" - it is called being a hor!!!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Girls don't have that much power. Besides, they face the chance of getting their asses beat hard if they choose the wrong man. Be glad you are a guy.
 
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