Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Does internet dating/pof have any merit?

incognito42

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Hey guys, a couple of my friends swear by sites like pof, and I figured it has to be nothing but rhino rallys that just want attention/validation. was just looking to find out some of your guys opinions about such dating sites. Have you had any success finding azz from these places? I tried it out awhile back and didn't get much of a feel for it. What do you think? Any tips for me, thinkin about givin it another try???

Thanks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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JohnnyStorm

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incognito42 said:
Hey guys, a couple of my friends swear by sites like pof, and I figured it has to be nothing but rhino rallys that just want attention/validation. was just looking to find out some of your guys opinions about such dating sites. Have you had any success finding azz from these places? I tried it out awhile back and didn't get much of a feel for it. What do you think? Any tips for me, thinkin about givin it another try???

Thanks
It's up to you. It's an option, I wouldn't put too much effort into it as online dating in general for men is just such a timesink.
I tend to find I have better chances on OKCupid, but the women are just so much uglier.
Try to keep your messages fun and your profile slightly original. On sites where women can see the criteria of women you are looking for, put in some information, you don't want it to appear that you are so desperate that you will accept ANY broad from 18-55. Try to stay away from the "Hi, how are you?" messages, unless you look like a God. Women are obviously inundated with messages every day.
And lastly, just remember that it's a numbers game.
Good luck!
 

GS750

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If you're good looking, put up a profile and just let them contact you. Yeah you'll be in contact with less women, but if they reach out first your chances are better. Sending out dozens of original emails is too time consuming with very little return IMO.
 
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