"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Does Height Matter?

Does Height Matter?

  • Taller than me = No Way!!!

    Votes: 10 25.6%
  • If all else is fine, I'll put up with it.

    Votes: 17 43.6%
  • Only for a fu<k but can't be seen in public with her.

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Tallness turns me on.

    Votes: 12 30.8%

  • Total voters
    39

Disturbed

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How much does the women's height matter in your evaluation?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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diablo

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Moved to Anything Else...

My vote was for "Taller than me, no way!". Then again, that'd make her 6'+.
 

Levex

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since i'm 6'2"-3" i really dont find chicks taller than me at all attractive. in fact i think its plain freaky.
 

undesputable

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I voted that i put up with it if all else is fine, primarly bc im not that tall myself. im 5'7 so a chick 1-3 inches taller than me would be all good.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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MindOverMatter

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i'm 6'2, so anything 5'9-6 feet is a good range for me, as long as she's not too skinny
 

Climax

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hmmm.....

If its just a one night thing or whatever, then the height doesnt matter to me at all, but if its a relationship, then i would NOT want to go out with a girl that is taller than me.


Laterz...
 

napoleon

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I'm 187cm (6'1 or 2?) and I get turned on by small women -like 155-165 cm. They are just more feminine to me than some 6'0'' girafe.
 

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Tall women admirers, isn't it sweet that the majority do not feel anything for tallness? that means less competition for us.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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im 175cm i like girls that are almost my hight butstill a bit shorter. say 165-170cm i will tolerate a bit less but do not like too much less and not more, although if a girl was my hight it would not put me off.

The way i see it is you have to be dominanat, if you like small girls maybe its because you do not thinkyou are alpha enough to control a bigger girl!
 

Fatality

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Girls over 5'9 are too masculine for my taste. Normally too skinny too.
 

Abbott

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Tall women are good. It means that when you kiss them you don't have to bend over. She would have to.

Plus I can say things like "Margaret, could you get me that <insert thing here> from the top shelf?" instead of "Ben, can you get this for me?"

But all in all it doesn't matter to me, just as long as she's 5'3" or higher.

Ben

P.S. I'm 5'8".
 
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