“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Does having nothing in common with women really matter?

lanba

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They're all into clubbing and top 40 pop and I am not. Can I still bang them?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Don_Dom

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Pretty much what Mike said.

Attraction is about attraction which is all you need for a sexual partnership. Common intersts are important for relationships.

Where people get in trouble is confusing the two. You can have a great sexual partnership with someone you don't have anything in common with but don't fall in love and try to make a relationship work because it likely won't.
 

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reminds me of a 19 year old chick i dated, she likes listening to rihanna while i bang her, as i listen to slayer in my ipod while i seasoned her abbys. We're not completely in common but she's so hot i gave her an exemption.
 

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lol Slayer. Will they really let you listen to your iPod in the sack? I wouldn't even try.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Mike32ct

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Sometimes a guy has plenty of common interests with a female. They like many of the same things. The guy is convinced that she is perfect for him. But he's in friendzone because she isn't physically attracted to him. She sleeps with some guy that she has little in common with because he makes her gina tingle.

Of course, as noted above, we are talking about flings here. For a relationship, you need attraction and hopefully some things in common.
 

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Having things in common with a woman is important if you want to be her friend....

In fact if I find a girl likes something that I don't, I make fun of it...I do this often.
 

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I had nothing in common with my last Fvck Buddy aside from enjoying to fvck. Other then that everything about us was different. If you want to potentially date or if your dying to be in the friend zone then ya, having things in common will definitely help.
 

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like everyone else said, common interests only matter if you want a lasting relationship with them to work.

if not, then you could be complete opposites and still have fun for weeks.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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To be honest, yes and no. If you guys have common interests but don't see eachother as LTR's, (they don't possess certain traits) they are only good for FRIENDS and FwB! We all make friends with some similar interests anyways
 
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