Does going to a bar/club alone look bad?

[TheBaconator]

In the eyes of women? I was supposed to go out with my friend to some club but some girl called him and he has a date now. It's a friday night and everyone already has plans so i'm thinking of just going to this place solo. Is this a good idea?

 

[Warrior74]

I've done it. When i was out of college in a new town I went out alone. I didn't know anyone. I met some people....hung out with them started making friends. I don't know what women think about it. If I want to do something I do it.
Go with friends or go alone. It's up to you.

 

[TheBaconator]

Yea screw it, sitting at home alone on a friday nite is too depressing. I just hope I don't run into anybody I know.

 

[Warrior74]

Wish I was out! go have fun for me!

 

[MikeYikes122]

I just did it. All my friends were being lame tonight, and it was the only alternative.

What I usually do is, I go out and pretend like I was supposed to meet up with friends who were too drunk to find me. It is a pretty understandable excuse.

Normally, I just end up seeing people I know or recognize and I talk to them. I've also noticed girls will approach you a lot more frequently when you're alone .

The best thing to do is to not sit at the bar or stay put in one position. You'll just look like a creeper who is trolling for ass. Keep moving around, go to the bathroom line and chat girls up if you can. Switch bars if you have to. If you know a lot of people in your city, I'm sure you will see someone you know.