You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
It is from the moral sense of the reality of good and evil that we infer some ground and cause for it. The attempt to reduce it to something else such as natural or social causes leads to all sorts of absurdities.I think God and lots of things in the bible got twisted with time. What if it's as simple as God not actually being a person but instead a concept. That God is just a warped version of the word "Good", after all it's just one letter difference. Coincidentally the word "Devil" becomes the word "Evil" with the removal of just one letter. Could possibly be a warped for of "the evil".
It would make a lot of sense that the bible is a collection of stories about good and evil experiences. That would put the bible on the same line as artists creatively expressing their experiences.
There is no evidence of any supernatural entity though.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
That's not Jesus, that's reciprocity and social proof. You gave CD's to everybody, invoking the law of reciprocity, making people want to repay the favor.Then everybody saw everybody repaying the favor, and that gave you massive social proof, which turned into authority, as enough social proof tends to lead to authority.But I can take the things his son said and use them to jedi mind-fvck the universe into doing my bidding. That is real enough for me.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I believe a CREATOR exists, but I don't think he has direct control over the day-to-day operations of our lives. I believe the CREATOR setup the process (intelligent design) and it's the individual thoughts, beliefs, and actions of MANKIND that determines how our daily lives function.Yes, he is everywhere
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No, he is no where
so yes, God does exist!![]()
This whole praying for "god" to bring a "good woman" simply allows you to position yourself mentally to see it when it's there. It's not like things magically happen. You still have to be the right man that's ready for it and position yourself correctly to receive it.I believe a CREATOR exists, but I don't think he has direct control over the day-to-day operations of our lives. I believe the CREATOR setup the process (intelligent design) and it's the individual thoughts, beliefs, and actions of MANKIND that determines how our daily lives function.
- So for example, guys praying to God to "bring them a good woman" is stupid because I don't believe God has control over our day-to-day operations. Instead of praying to God to bring you a good woman, you should seek out some other type of MAN (or WOMAN) who can provide guidance in helping you find a good woman or bringing you a good woman directly.
- Another example, instead of praying to God for "financial blessings and to get your financial house in order", you should seek out supply/demand to figure out what skills you can provide to the market in exchange for the market providing you income/revenue. You would then pay off any costs of supplying said demand from the income/revenue you received and the profits (minus taxes) will be what you have left over. Then you would seek out budgeting, spending control, etc. All of these are MAN-MADE principles based on Social Sciences.
- Don't pray to God for peace, seek out a group of men (an army) that can help bring about peace.
- Don't pray to God for healing, seek out a man (doctor) that can treat the symptoms, explain the disease, and whose partnered with other men (drug manufacturers) that can eliminate the disease.
Make sense?
Correct, so what does praying have to do with that at all? Shouldn't a guy focus his energies and time on deciding the type of job he wants, becoming the man for the job, and putting himself out there on the market to look for the job or to have the "job" bump into him?You still have to be the right man that's ready for it and position yourself correctly to receive it.
Praying is meditation, just puts you in the zone.Correct, so what does praying have to do with that at all? Shouldn't a guy focus his energies and time on deciding the type of job he wants, becoming the man for the job, and putting himself out there on the market to look for the job or to have the "job" bump into him?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.