"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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does family scare you?

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vonbock

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This is a question to all you DJ's out there. I was dating an Asian girl out there whose family has the worse drama you will ever meet. During the time with her, I got to witness in one or more of her family members:FBI sting, DEA sting, money laundering drug money, tax evasion, adultery, illegal marriage scheme to get relative over here, insurance fraud, using 1 sisters 24 hour fitness card for whole family, borrowing money, lies, etc.
If you were dating the girl and you saw the family memeber involved in all this, would you be afraid of going out with the girl?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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TheManlyMan

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everyone has some skeletons in their closet and some people just have graveyards.
 
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WaterTiger

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Congratulations VonBock! By dating this girl the FBI probably has started a file on YOU under "Know Associates".
 
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LA_Chico

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OMG bro! using 1 sisters 24 hour fitness card for whole family, steer clear of that one, that sounds like dangerous s h i it!
 
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ExploringOne

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ROFL.

Why would you be afraid of the girl? Just make sure when you break up with her, you do it in a way that doesn't give her a reason to go psycho...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Feds don't fvck around. Just knowing what she is up to makes you guilty of conspiracy according to Federal law.

Stay away from anyone that has problems with Federal law enforcement officers; it's a bad scene.
 
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ROTFLMAO!

"NO I WOULD NOT!"

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

RUN man, RUN!
 
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