"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Does every guy have 1 woman they regret losing?

pvf94

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Im gonna answer with a simple yes. But now, I dont dwell on it, and realize that it was the past, and regrets with woman are not going to get me very far.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I broke up with a girl last year, and a few months ago I started regretting that decision. Probably one of the first times I regretted something instead of seeing it as a learning experience. The girl still was crazy about me though and asked me to give us another chance....... I did.... one of the worst mistakes of my life........Leave the past in the past
 

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not so much the girl i regret losing, but regret not being more smart in the game at the time when i had her. if i was not a wimp i would have been going with her for sure, because we had everything in common and she was very easy to talk too and make laugh. but i just stopped calling her because i was too much of a shy, insecure AFC.
 
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