"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Does DYD work for college too?

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yes it will, whats so diffrent about college?:confused:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I just feel as if a college girl can't be picked up easily.
Frat Parties = limited to just Frat Guys usually gettin the girl. Classroom = just studyin, thats all.
Apartment Parties = if u know nobody ur ****ed.
I'm really hyped up about David D's system(NOTE: I studied it once in H.S. and actually started to become funny, but hated his program after a while since the ****y and Funny didn't go to well. I listen to his program a year later again and hey, it is better than i thought.) But I just feel as if College Pick up is extremely hard.
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College is easy :)
You're creating excuses to not go out and pick up girls. You are creating your own limitations, STOP doing this as soon as you can. Instead, ask yourself "How do I get where I want to be?"

Frat parties limited to just frat guys getting the girl, WTF?? I don't know about the US but this isn't usually the case over here. If you have some friends there, just go with them and start meeting more and more people when you're there.
Classroom is indeed just for studying, but don't you ever have a lunch at college or get eyecontact with girls in your class so you can start a conversation with her afterwards?
As for appartment parties, just walk in and start getting to know people, they're having a party, if you know how to have fun they usually love to have you there!

Instead of thinking that it's really hard, realize that it's just as hard as anywhere else. It never gets any easier than college, actually.
 

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if college is so bad than just start with easy cold approaches lol
 
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Classrooms are the easiest place to run game. What in the flying 7-4-7 f*ck are you talking about!?
 

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college girls are unbelievably easy ! Are you kidding ?

Granted not all girls are willing to give it out, but most single girls want a hook-up.......they want sex ! Play your cards right and you can get it. I went to an apartment party and two couples that met that night hooked up in the same bathroom !

If you dont have friends obviously you wont get invited to parties. If you complain about no good parties, then u need to make friends. You dont get invited to parties w/o friends.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Frat parties limited to just frat guys getting the girl, WTF??
Youre forgetting where fraternity men have social status, where GDIs don't.
 

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You create social status by getting to know the frat guys. You don't need to be a part of their group, or at least you don't over here.

What's a GDI?
 

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C&F is a tool, nothing more

doing only C&F will not "work" for you

think of it like a gun... sure, you can shoot it, but you have to

make sure the barrels clean, (you're presentable)

it's loaded, (you have more interesting things to say than just C&F)

your safetyis off (your limiting beliefs are nonexistent)

you're holding it right (YOUR BODY LANGUAGE)

and you've aimed it properly (maybe it's just the wrong girl... but like aiming, you won't get good at it without PRACTICE)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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:) Thanks guys I really appreciate it. Its just that when I read the "huge" college post by crazykid, I thought it was going to be a piece of cake when I entered school. I thought, "Hey, I think I can finally pick up chicks, the 1st week." Yes, I did gain some social status, but the problem was that my female success was almost 0. Only one lay(ONS). Even at Frat Parties, I could dance with some girls, but the problem was that either after they wanted nothing to do with me, or when I talked to them, they just didn't want to. I just feel like its gettin to the point that i've almost given up, hopefully David D's program can atleast get me to a positive mindset.
 

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When you approach a women, dont' think about sh*t! Don't think about how bad your breath might be, how scrawny you are compared to some of the other guys, how unattractive you think you are. how she wouldn't go out with you because you don't think she'd find you attractive, how you really don't have much money or a nice car, how stupid you might come off, saying something stupid, or how you might make an ass out of yourself.

Just do it! Approach! F*ck it if you win or lose! Que Sera Sera!

It's better than not doing anything and just thinking about all night what could have been.

So my advice, clear your mind. Don't think. Do.
 

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I dont see how difficult college can be...When I went to visit my friends, there were people on the street that told us where the parties were, and I didnt even know these people! The girls are easy too, all you gotta do is go up and talk to them during a party, and you can get at them when they are acting crazy on the street too...Try being in real life and try getting at these girls, you gotta work hard to get opportunities...College is just making friends with people to get connects to parties, its that simple...If you are so concerned about frat parties, do what my friend does and make friends with guys in frats so they will let you in all the time....I couldnt be at a place like that, I prolly wouldnt do any school work and I would be partying and smashing girls all the time...
 

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Originally posted by wiggadude
What is DYD? Destroy your D.i.c.k?
more like double your dating which in his case is something like

2 x 0 = 0 :(
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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