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Does cleanliness count when you bring her home?

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I have a question about the cleanliness of your house. If you meet a girl somewhere and she decided to come back to your place does it have to be spick and span?

I can understand if you have mold or leftover food layin around but like dirty clothes and small things scattered about have some affect?
 

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Keep your pad clean.

It doesn't have to look like a hotel room, just don't have dirty clothes/dishes and garbage lying around. And keep it smelling nice, put some sort of aroma thing in on Friday morning and leave it in for the weekend. If you're a messy fvck like me, clean your room on Friday before going out and keep it clean over the weekend.

My gf always tells me that I'm the cleanest guy she's ever met, even though I'm probably one of the messiest. Believe it or not, having a messy rough looking room has nothing to do with being manly or masculine...It means your a mudpig. Clean your pad.
 

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Geez, I'd never seen a post on "pad cleanliness" until the last few days... and suddenly there's like four of them.
 

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realsmoothie said:
Geez, I'd never seen a post on "pad cleanliness" until the last few days... and suddenly there's like four of them.
I was just thinking the same thing. :crazy:

Lots of threads have been like this lately. One thread will come asking about a topic, and then there are 5 more before the week is over.

What a weird trend. Do people not read before they post?
 

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How bout u try and keep it clean for yourself and not rushing around cleaning the day b4 u got a chick there.

yeah ive seen alot of clean threads too, that happens with hot topics, like looks anytime someone makes a thread about looks u will see another 6 right after.
 

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Girls usually tease me bout how neat my room is, but they actually seem to like it so i think as one of the above posters said clean is prob a good thing. I like to spray colgone over my bed, smells great.
 

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B-Real said:
I have a question about the cleanliness of your house. If you meet a girl somewhere and she decided to come back to your place does it have to be spick and span?

I can understand if you have mold or leftover food layin around but like dirty clothes and small things scattered about have some affect?
If you are pig then get off your lazy fat ass and clean sh-it up. No one likes a pig.

I can recall one date of mine that invited me inside her house. I looked around the kitchen and I saw that every counter top and every table was covered with dirty dishes. It was the most disgusting thing I ever saw. 3 women in that house and not one would even lift a finger to clean that mess up. Needless to say I droped that hor very fast
 
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