"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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bigneil

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Does KarmaSutra love poles?

I've had 2 polls in 5 years.
 

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KarmaSutra said:
Seems like you've had more.

This is what I mean. You take this sh!t far too serious. Lighten up and enjoy.

and don't forget to kneel...
LMFAO

can you vote for all 3?


bigneil said:
I haven't tried Match since 2003 and had a little bit of luck there, but I'm tired of hearing people recommend Match.com, especially after seeing how POF has gone downhill. I don't hear much about Match on this site so I'm curious.
I figure they both suck. I wouldn't waste any money trying to meet women on line
 
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