"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Does being ****y work with good-looking dudes?

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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dj trainee

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According to some female friends, they say if the guy's looking, they get away with it... If they're already good looking though, they don't really need to be ****y but I suppose if they can say it in a joking way, it would probably work in their favour too.
 

ENIGMA16

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Depends on what you mean by ****y. I act like a ****y ******* towards girls a lot, but it's just part of the game and they know that I'm just teasing them with it.
 

Unbridled_Phoenix

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If you are very good looking, c&f can hurt more than it helps. It gets overused anyway.
 

sosocool

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Unbridled_Phoenix said:
If you are very good looking, c&f can hurt more than it helps. It gets overused anyway.

I think I know what you mean.

I live in California (los angeles) and I think that whole ****y thing has been played out here cause every time I try to be ****y & funny with women, they seem put off. And I've been wondering what the h@ll why...

I'm good looking, but I'm no Antonio Banderas, but still good looking so I wondered if it was my looks that maybe was causing the whole ****y funny thing not to work.

I was probably making myself look bad, like an ass

also girls here seem to be very sensitive. It's like you can't even make fun of them without them taking it so literally ... like they don't know the meaning of satire.

It was way different in D.C. down there you can poke fun at girls and they loved it... cause they knew I wasn't being serious, just having fun.

any how thanks for the feedback and good luck with the ladies!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Cockynfunny

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some girls dont play along with it, i had cnf backfiring on me a couple of times, its a good technique, but from what i'd learnt so far is that it is fine as long as you dont use it all the time... if the girl is kinds giving you **** then cnf her, if she responds positively just have a good convo man, no need in cnf negging her or **** like that:) hope it helps
 

YogurtSlinger

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You guys ever just try being a gentleman? Might catch em off guard...
 
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