"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Does banging the most girls mean you are successful?

Bumsniff

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Does banging the most girls mean you are more successful with women in life?

It could mean that depending on what your goals in life are, but just because one or more guys have banged more girls than someone else doesn't necessarily mean the guy is better off than the next man unless the other guys goal in life is trying to get laid but can't. Some may think quantity over quality but it's not just about girls looks. If you pick up trash no matter how good they look and are banging them..how is that helping you in becoming a better man?

Seems there's far too much emphasis on getting laid these days rather than improving yourself, finding someone who compliments your life as you should hers.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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All depends on the definition of successful. Personally I've turned chicks away because I'm not dependent on my sexual desires and I do whatever I want. When it comes to independence and all non-sex based measurable achievements, I've far surpassed my peers, and I credit that to my ability to overcome temptation and make the decisions that are most advantageous to my personal goal fulfillment. So while everyone else is obsessing over trying to satisfy the insatiable, I'm constantly progressing in the most important aspects of my life...
 

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I would have to agree here.

There are so many more importany things in life that, as a man, you should be cconcentrating on. For me, its - career, fitness, family, friends, hobbies and I would put women at the end of that list. Excelling in these areas pays dividends at later points in your life. Women - well they come and go, and should NOT be the center focus of your life.

And yes - I can't seem to wrap my head around some dudes wanting to bang anything that moves. For me, its quality over quantity, any day. I would rather not get laid one night than bang some slore who'll probably give me an STD.
 

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Bumsniff said:
Does banging the most girls mean you are more successful with women in life?

It could mean that depending on what your goals in life are, but just because one or more guys have banged more girls than someone else doesn't necessarily mean the guy is better off than the next man unless the other guys goal in life is trying to get laid but can't.
If we are talking average girls, its not that the guy is better off, it's the guy knows how to relate sexually to girls, that's why guys get so frustrated.

Some may think quantity over quality but it's not just about girls looks. If you pick up trash no matter how good they look and are banging them..how is that helping you in becoming a better man?
Bang now, become a better man later. Come on bro, how many guys on here wouldn't bang a supermodel in 3 seconds? It's always about looks with guys.

Seems there's far too much emphasis on getting laid these days rather than improving yourself, finding someone who compliments your life as you should hers.
The problem with improving yourself is it doesn't guarantee the girl. There is a ton of stuff on improving yourself, but there is nothing to teach you how to relate sexually to girls because you are dealing with emotion and feelings and boyfriends. That's why guys hate this advice, Im improving myself but I still can't get to her feelings or any action, why should I even try? They begin to realize its not a cause and effect situation and get angry, frustrated, give up.

Now if you said improving yourself would guarantee the girl, every guy on here would be #1 since they could see the result at the end of the road.
 
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It depends how you define success, I don't think of getting with women as a success, more of nature taking its course.

The only success I care about is how I do career wise. Women are secondary to me, never been a major priority and long may that continue.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hexagram said:
I would have to agree here.

There are so many more importany things in life that, as a man, you should be cconcentrating on. For me, its - career, fitness, family, friends, hobbies and I would put women at the end of that list. Excelling in these areas pays dividends at later points in your life. Women - well they come and go, and should NOT be the center focus of your life.

And yes - I can't seem to wrap my head around some dudes wanting to bang anything that moves. For me, its quality over quantity, any day. I would rather not get laid one night than bang some slore who'll probably give me an STD.
^Agreed 100%
 

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To me it's all about deciding what you really want in life. It's easy to hear a story one of your friends tells you about some random hottie he banged, and want the same thing for yourself. Rarely are people realistic/honest about what it took them to get there with her and the risks they took.

To me it's all about what you are committed to achieve, rather than what you can achieve.
 

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Back in the day, my only goal was to bang as many chicks as I could. I'll even be honest, I set my standards a bit low, but these shags would still be considered a "victory" to me. No extremely ugly girls, and never any fat girls, but I did bang an HB5.5 and a few HB6s.

To a degree, I think it defines success because during this time period I felt confident in my ability to pull just about any girl I wanted and bed them.

But at the same time, some of these girls were not "quality". It all depends on what your own personal definition of "success" is. Back then, it was banging just about any girl I could. Now I take more pride in it. I turn more girls down, and try to bang girls that I can actually get "props" for.

My number is in the 30s somewhere. But I'd probably say about 6-7 of those girls are almost too embarrassing to admit to.

-Scars
 
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