Does attraction level affect time it takes a girl to orgasm?

[evoken]

See title.

ie if a girl is fvcking you because she is in love with you, you can make her orgasm a lot easier than if you were rather unattractive to her and just getting a pity fvck. Or does it just come down to skill/experience in bed?

 

[DarthNihilus]

Love doesn't really factor in.

Animal desire for a man is what matters.

For example a woman can be "in love" with her husband but not find him all that sexually arousing, she stays with him because she "loves him" but she gets a lot more wet and ready to cvm thinking of Carlos the totally hot and built landscaper thats doing her yard...and if she had her way...would soon be doing her.

Now on the other hand if a woman is both in love with her boyfriend/husband and turned on by him than its probably about the same in quickness for when she cvms.

Love is not what gets women off.

Raw animal desire is what does it.

 

[horaholic]

Yes, and no. Love doesnt give women orgasms, per se, but it can open an emotional door for them. Hopefully, love=comfort with them, so they will give more of themselves to the act itself. Chicks have a lot of different levels going on sexually. Chicks feel connection(or love, later on)/comfort/trust/animal attraction(lust)/physical touch/self esteem raising. Oh, and lets not forget your personnal skill, and compatability with each others bodies. (different girls like different shapes and sizes of cokks.). Guys are simpler. Its not that attraction itself gives bettor or more O's, but the more attraction, makes her get into it more, gets her wetter faster, helps her just 'let go,' so she will cvm more. Take the attraction, and comfort, and amplify it with the other things I mentioned above, and you've got fvck doll on your hands.

So, to answer your question, you can be lacking in the attraction, and it will take her longer to get into it, and not give herself fully, BUT...if you have good enough 'skillz,' her attraction level will skyrocket. No matter how unattractive you are, you will turn into the hottest thing the girl has ever seen, if you make her cvm ten times over. And Vice Versa. If you cant handle yourself in between the sheets, you attraction level will drop in her eyes.

 

[Groovy]

If you cant handle yourself in between the sheets, you attraction level will drop in her eyes.

Not asking this directly to you but to everyone: What if like you get really really excited durning sex!? Do girls like that? I get confused because that "showing a girl you like her too much will make her think she has you and thus not like you so much" does that apply when you get extra really horny durning sex? For example if you're all like: "Damn I can't take it anymore I'm gonna come in a second", but really meaning it, do girls like that or not? I'm guessing that if you play it cool like you could go without the sex after you did it it's okay, but if you show you really really enjoy it that would make her like it even more or not? Or would she think like it's totally wierd\bad? My guess is that she would get excited to know you're excited, the more you like it the more she likes it. But I gotta ask!! This topic is so interresting!

Edit: If you're like not all gay saying that, if that is possible imagine that. If you're like still playing your role, you're the man and she's the women, you just get really excited, that's sort of what I'm asking. Sorry if this looks WAY off topic.

 

[Leporello]

Not asking this directly to you but to everyone: What if like you get really really excited durning sex!? Do girls like that? I get confused because that "showing a girl you like her too much will make her think she has you and thus not like you so much" does that apply when you get extra really horny durning sex? For example if you're all like: "Damn I can't take it anymore I'm gonna come in a second", but really meaning it, do girls like that or not? I'm guessing that if you play it cool like you could go without the sex after you did it it's okay, but if you show you really really enjoy it that would make her like it even more or not? Or would she think like it's totally wierd\bad? My guess is that she would get excited to know you're excited, the more you like it the more she likes it. But I gotta ask!! This topic is so interresting!

Edit: If you're like not all gay saying that, if that is possible imagine that. If you're like still playing your role, you're the man and she's the women, you just get really excited, that's sort of what I'm asking. Sorry if this looks WAY off topic.

Out of curiosity, have you ever had sex?

Different girls have different styles in bed. Some like it when you get really aggressive and carried away; others find it stagy.

In my experience orgasms kind of creep up on girls; one second you're going along as normal and then they're shaking and holding on to you for dear life. You can't really force it.

 

[radiodude]

For most healthy, teen thru middle aged women, yes it absolutely does.

(Some women have a medical or psychological issue that can get in the way, this isn't including that.)

The same properties apply for both sexes. Men are just simpler creatures when it comes to what attracts us outright.

 

[Groovy]

Out of curiosity, have you ever had sex?

Different girls have different styles in bed. Some like it when you get really aggressive and carried away; others find it stagy.

In my experience orgasms kind of creep up on girls; one second you're going along as normal and then they're shaking and holding on to you for dear life. You can't really force it.

No! But I'm curious, so it's not cool like to over react when you orgasm, like in a really intense way? But if you mean it of course. Is that like bad in the eyes of the girl, or do they like it? Maybe not really? That's what i'm asking. Because I think that when I do it I'm really gonna enjoy it maximum so I was wondering if that's cool to show or maybe you should not show that?

 

[horaholic]

NO. Women are supposed to go nuts, not the guys. The chick will think you are insane if you overreact. And then she will tell everybody about it.