Does anyone want to get married here???

[Married Buried]

Are you exaggerating or do you actually believe that 99% of American women are garbage? Because my mom's American. My sister is American. My niece is American. I assure you, they are all lovely and I'll bet you'd really like them. But by your highly scientific calculations, the odds of them being not garbage are stacked against them

I don't give 2 ****s about your American family. My family is American too and my sister was a huge slut she cheated on every boyfriend she ever has. Now she is fat and ugly and married a beta. Textbook.

How do you know what your family did? Did they ever go out on dates? I highly doubt you know what they did.

 

[Heisenberg]

my sister was a huge slut she cheated on every boyfriend she ever has. Now she is fat and ugly and married a beta.

You sound well adjusted.

 

[Married Buried]

You sound well adjusted.

I am fantastically adjusted. Last American chic I banged had a boyfriend who she said is a "worry wart" while I was stuffing my **** in her mouth. The one before that just broke up with her boyfriend because they had a threesome and she got jealous. Oh yeah the half black chic I dated was divorced twice and told me she was on the pill so I would bust in her. The guy after me knocked her up thank god it wasn't me.

Have you ever banged a chic?

The foreign women are mostly stable and completely better. You can have the american women. Let them screw you I don't care.

 

[In2theGame]

I would like to settle down a bit and yeah, get Married. I definitely dont need a Wife or a full time Girlfriend to get sex or female company, I can easily get beautiful women to hook up with just by going out however, it has left me feeling empty without actually loving the girl. Yeah it sounds "gay" but really, I've been on both ends, serious LTR and bachelor sleeping with many hot women and i realize, sadly, its a pick your poison decision. I can keep on going about my life without getting attached to avoid getting destroyed emotionally and financially or i can commit to a girl i really like/love and risk getting fvcked later in a few years. It's not just me but i pay attention to whats going on a round me and Men are getting rolled over left and right either through a divorce or find out their GF is "not happy" "Needs time alone" "Needs to find herself" lol what a load of sh!t that line is. Anyway, after the guy spending thousands of dollars on her and then shes all of a sudden is "unhappy" and wants a break. Women dont realize what kind of impact that leaves on a Man. It's an emotional rollercoaster that many Men want to avoid. I have talked to a lot of guys who feel "trapped" in their Marriage and its pretty sad. For me, I just dont know anymore. The way my ex girlfriend hurt me at the end of out LTR, Left me feeling so hurt and angry that i could of literally killed her and went to jail. I dont want to feel like that ever again.

Overall its like looking down into a pit with many deadly spikes at the bottom,.... However there is a small area in the pit that i wont die if i happen to land in the right spot..... The question is am i willing to risk jumping into that pit hoping i can land on that small safe spot or misstep and get impaled and killed..... High Risk... Small reward... :nervous: I know im not perfect but i would be considered a good catch. Im 31, 6' tall with a great lean physique, Good looking to where I can land hot women easily, Im packed in the sack (blessed on that one lol), No children, Never married, Drug, STD free (lucky because ive done a lot of crazy sh!t) and I work on my own investments where i learned when i worked in the Wall st area. Im scared to risk everything all because a Woman becomes "unhappy".

 

[62Telecaster]

It's simple for me...I busted my ass during my early/mid-20s to save money and further my career so that I could chase a few dreams later on. At 28, I'm now knee deep in building the life that I want to have...bought a house I love, moved to a city with a large 20-30 something presence, got the truck and car that I always wanted, am pursuing my musical and athletic hobbies in-full, I'm just about cemented in my job until retirement, I have meaningful social interactions regularly, and can basically just be happy and spontaneous with how I live. It was hard getting here, but I've been blessed with a good life as-is.

That's the key for me...I've built a happy life for myself and worked hard to get here, so why would I want to risk altering what is essentially an ideal and happy life?

I'm positioned to where I'm doing well and don't "need" to settle unless I stumble upon somebody who I can't live without. I consider this to be a privledge, and ironically the source of the confidence that attracts people to me. I'm not a jerk and have absolutely nothing to hide...I really don't need to just randomly jump into something "just to have somebody" and to "do what normal people do".

...and no offense, but just about all of my friends who married early are flat-out miserable with it. People today are less adept to "work it out" when problems arise and are conditioned to just simply cut the cord...we're the instant gratification/push the button and go generation, which complicates shoehorning traditional concepts and ideals into the picture. Millennials have more opportunities to explore the world around them and to socialize when compared to past generations that were more tailored for marriage and "the American Dream". Times have changed, and marriage is no longer "expected" as a part of life that everybody jumps into.

It's a wonderful thing if two people can create a life together and truly operate on the same wavelength...but it's far easier in today's world to expose a disaster and bolt than it is to stick it out and make a mistake work. Again...it comes down to me being happy and not needing to change that "just because".

 

[Bible_Belt]

I was married at 21. Kids are a much bigger deal than marriage. Without kids, there's hardly any difference between marriage and mere cohabitation. It just makes things like insurance and taxes easier.

If I get married again, I'll elope to Vegas. The first time was 18 minutes at the Tampa courthouse. I'm not against marriage, but I hate weddings, what a stupid waste of money. Women only think they want a big wedding, until it inevitably turns into a stressful, expensive headache.

 

[JohnChops]

I've noticed most guys here use women only for sex. Is that really how you want to spend the rest of your life...running around looking for girls only for sex?

Why don't you want to have families like normal people?

Being normal, is a death sentence

 

[backbreaker]

I was married at 21. Kids are a much bigger deal than marriage. Without kids, there's hardly any difference between marriage and mere cohabitation. It just makes things like insurance and taxes easier.

If I get married again, I'll elope to Vegas. The first time was 18 minutes at the Tampa courthouse. I'm not against marriage, but I hate weddings, what a stupid waste of money. Women only think they want a big wedding, until it inevitably turns into a stressful, expensive headache.

when i got married i told my wife look, i know you want it to be your day.. whatever you want, within reason, i'll foot the bill, but i don't want to hear one word about it lol. i'm gonna show up i'm gonna put on a tux and say i do and get drunk. you want this big wedding you are planning it. Peronsally i'm like you **** we can go get married at the waffle house if they allowed it lol. I don't care. she was like okay that's understandable.

all went well utnil we got about 2 months until it was tie to come and now she had to deal with the stress of traveling / booking hotels and ****. i wa like i don't want to hear it lol. she got mad at me one day becuase i put on some headhons and started playing metal gear solid while she was *****ing about the wedding.


that **** is a headACHE. and when we were done she was like meh it wasn't really worth it. gee thanks lol. and our wedding was not cheap

 

[62Telecaster]

Being normal, is a death sentence

It's complacency to me...there's something to be said about pushing yourself to constantly be more than what's expected.

For Gen-Y, I see only three categories of marriages that could actually end up truly working:

1)People who grew up together, experienced their lives together, and want to continue living together.

2)The unexplainable urge to be with someone that's felt from both sides equally...

3)People who share the same goals or priorities who can help each other achieve what they want.

...#s 1 and 3 are out for me, and #2 is the only thing that keeps the door open; I felt a little of this very briefly years ago, and it's something that you simply can't relate to unless you've been there yourself...I'm actually convinced that the average couple isn't even in the same stratosphere as #2, and that the average person doesn't know that particular feeling even exists or gets to experience it at all during their lifetime. It's a benchmark for sure to anybody who's been there.

 

[62Telecaster]

when i got married i told my wife look, i know you want it to be your day.. whatever you want, within reason, i'll foot the bill, but i don't want to hear one word about it lol. i'm gonna show up i'm gonna put on a tux and say i do and get drunk. you want this big wedding you are planning it. Peronsally i'm like you **** we can go get married at the waffle house if they allowed it lol. I don't care. she was like okay that's understandable.

all went well utnil we got about 2 months until it was tie to come and now she had to deal with the stress of traveling / booking hotels and ****. i wa like i don't want to hear it lol. she got mad at me one day becuase i put on some headhons and started playing metal gear solid while she was *****ing about the wedding.


that **** is a headACHE. and when we were done she was like meh it wasn't really worth it. gee thanks lol. and our wedding was not cheap

...superficial crap. A wedding is about two people, not 3rd cousin Rick drinking his way to the hospital while two of the bride's maids grind around on random dudes to ****ty 90s rap. If I ever marry...it's a small gathering of only the people that matter at a location that means something; not a ****ing fire hall stuffed with everybody under the sun. I'd rather spend the money on things that matter than throwing the world's cheesiest party for a day. It's crazy how women can grow beer goggles over their eyes when it comes to weddings.

 

[skinnyguy]

To be fair, women don't want to get married either.

They want to be independent like Beyoncé and not worry about kids, etc

 

[In2theGame]

To be fair, women don't want to get married either.

They want to be independent like Beyoncé and not worry about kids, etc

Thats what they say but they cannot fight their purpose in terms of a biological stand point. They can jiggle and wiggle their nice asses and get all the betas drooling at the mouth when they are young but after a while they will look around and see other Women with their kids in the park etc... realizing she will never experience the joy of having her own daughter/son running up to them calling them mommy.

Same for Men, many say they dont want to have kids and some may feel very strongly about that however a Man will want to take joy in raising a strong tough son that says "i love you dad" or a daughter that is happy to get help from her Father. Men want to take pride in that but the problem is how reckless and corrupt society has become. Couple that with a Woman who becomes manipulated into leaving her Husband by her "you go girl" friends and how she needs to be single again and be "free and alive" The courts will take his money and children from him, leaving him feeling like dirt.

Me personally, I didnt grow up with my Father for most of my life. My mom divorced him when i was a little kid and i have not spoken to him in Years. I grew up with Women and learned how to be a man through my uncles, male friends fathers and toughing it out in fights on the streets of Brooklyn. I dont like to think about it but i makes me very sad deep down not knowing what its like to say things like "hey dad", "Love you dad". Unfortunately, the next time i may see my Father may be when he is dead at his funeral. That will be very tough for me as i am his only son.

 

[princess_124]

Me personally, I didnt grow up with my Father for most of my life. My mom divorced him when i was a little kid and i have not spoken to him in Years. I grew up with Women and learned how to be a man through my uncles, male friends fathers and toughing it out in fights on the streets of Brooklyn. I dont like to think about it but i makes me very sad deep down not knowing what its like to say things like "hey dad", "Love you dad". Unfortunately, the next time i may see my Father may be when he is dead at his funeral. That will be very tough for me as i am his only son.

I have to admit that's sad...Every kid deserves to get love from both parents. We really need scientists/theorists to figure out why there are so many problems in marriage nowadays.. family is the backbone of the society, if family crumbles, so will society.

 

[J Roc]

Why would you limit your d1ck to one p*ssy for the rest of your life?

 

[Bingo-Player]

this thread is hilarious :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

 

[expos]

"she's a good girl".

Famous last words.

 

[Emotionist]

this thread is hilarious :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

First laugh today, thanks

 

[ColonelKilgore]

Basically what you are asking is:

Why don't you guys bow down to the feminine imperative? Come on, plug in to the Matrix like the rest of the chumps.

 

[Dgwizdal]

My family is American too and my sister was a huge slut she cheated on every boyfriend she ever has. Now she is fat and ugly and married a beta. Textbook.

LMAO

 

[PeasantPlayer]

As I said before marriage is a societal construct, its a made up ceremony.....if you want to have kids with a woman fine, but don't get married