"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Does anyone know where to start on changingminds.org?

donjuan87

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Changingminds.org looks like a great site that's full of useful information. But I have one problem. I don't know where to start!

I want to start from the basics, and learn as much as I can (not just about things that could help seduction), but I don't know how. Can anyone help?

P.S. here's the link http://www.changingminds.org/
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It doesn't matter where you start as long as you start.

Start at disciplines, when you think you know enough about that subject, skip onto techniques and so on.
 

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Thanks, but I would be able to get more out of it if I had a defined path to follow, in a 'numbered chapters in a book' kind of way.

The site seems great, but the sheer amount of information is just so overwhelming.

Can anyone be more specific?
 
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