"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Does anyone know a good thread for tips on seducing in a bar setting?

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I did a couple of searches but didn't come up with anything useful. So does anyone know a good thread on seducing in a bar setting? Thanks.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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-Scan the room for eye contact
-If any girl shoots you any EC, go up to her and start talking to her while giving her deep EC
-Speak in a soft, deep voice
-Only say just enough to keep the conversation flowing, but nothing more
-If there are any awkward blips yet she's still being friendly, just HOLD the EC - this is what we call sexual tension.
-TOUCH her ASAP (start from friendly shoulder touches to more sexualized things)
-Handshake with your palm up and hold that *****'s hand if she's giving you good non-verbals
-You are a man with a **** and your non-verbals better look like it.



If you do the above, you will not even need to verbalize your interest, she will know exactly what is up from the moment you look at her. Seduction occurs on a non-verbal channel, which means that, so long as you're not autistic/socially retarded, what you say DOESN'T FVCKING MATTER.

And for god's sake, do NOT use PU theory routines or lines. It is impossible to talk your way into a girl's pants. If she likes what she sees, she's going to test whether or not you're socially retarded (i.e. can you keep a conversation going?) and whether or not you can be up front about your attraction (this is largely done through non-verbals in my case [eye contact, the prosody of your speech, physical proximity, etc]).

If you don't believe me when I say that what you say doesn't matter, look at the supposed PU guru's girlfriends. They're busted. Supposedly, these guys can talk really well and they're all great flirters, but guess what ends up being the deciding factor? That's right, something you can't really change without hard work: your looks and your non-verbals.
 

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blueline said:
-Scan the room for eye contact
-If any girl shoots you any EC, go up to her and start talking to her while giving her deep EC
-Speak in a soft, deep voice
-Only say just enough to keep the conversation flowing, but nothing more
-If there are any awkward blips yet she's still being friendly, just HOLD the EC - this is what we call sexual tension.
-TOUCH her ASAP (start from friendly shoulder touches to more sexualized things)
-handshake with your palm up and hold that *****'s hand if she's giving you good non-verbals

if you do the above, you will not even need to verbalize your interest, she will know exactly what is up from the moment you look at her.
nice general tips. I'm looking for tips right now because I'm bringing some girl to a bar to meet some co-workers and would like to escalate things a bit (at least to find out if she's interested so I don't waste my time with her). But your tips will work for that situation too. Thanks.
 

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Kal0051 said:
nice general tips. I'm looking for tips right now because I'm bringing some girl to a bar to meet some co-workers and would like to escalate things a bit (at least to find out if she's interested so I don't waste my time with her). But your tips will work for that situation too. Thanks.
Nice, man. Just be friendly and do what I said above. I have run the same game in a coffee shop in a similar situation and the girl said she needed to be somewhere alone with me after 20 minutes of it. That's my only type of game.

Awkward silence is NOT really awkward silence if she's attracted. You just need to lock eyes with her and touch her like a man. Nothing grabby or rapist like, just close the physical gap somehow.
 

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I'm looking for tips right now because I'm bringing some girl to a bar to meet some co-workers and would like to escalate things a bit (at least to find out if she's interested so I don't waste my time with her).
sorry to go a bit off topic, shouldn't you find out her interest before introducing her to people you know, such as co-workers?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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