"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Does anyone here find maintaining PEAK HIGH interest for a long period difficult?

DjVelvet

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Crank_It_Up said:
No, I'm not tired because I don't do jack to maintain her interest other than just be myself. If that's not good enough she can move on. I'd rather find a girl who likes me for me, not an act I portray... that would be very tiring, and depressing.
Exactly..

If i were to be myself completely.. I'm the sort of typical routined guy out there, staying at home relaxing~~ ..
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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well there ya have it djVelvet !! you are a loser whose ashamed of himself..you are NOT ready for a relationship, you are NOT deserving of the right to call yourself a MAN..please spend the rest of your life accepting yourself and learning to be happy with yourself.

Crank It Up and LMS, came through with EVEN MORE SOLID advice, sadly you are not on their level..please leave mature man forum and rejoin the AFC society on the main boards.

p.s. Have a Nice Day
 

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Drum&Bass said:
well there ya have it djVelvet !! you are a loser whose ashamed of himself..you are NOT ready for a relationship, you are NOT deserving of the right to call yourself a MAN..please spend the rest of your life accepting yourself and learning to be happy with yourself.

Crank It Up and LMS, came through with EVEN MORE SOLID advice, sadly you are not on their level..please leave mature man forum and rejoin the AFC society on the main boards.

p.s. Have a Nice Day
Hey buddy, be cool, why got so worked up? :nono: Everyone's learning and if you are there bashing on certain posters, then good luck, we hope your behavior will improve :up: You still have a long way to go from what i see...

Anyway, another useless post by you, for your own goodplease think about it yourself.

p.s. Have fun learning :cool:
 
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