"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Does anyone here find maintaining PEAK HIGH interest for a long period difficult?

DjVelvet

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Crank_It_Up said:
No, I'm not tired because I don't do jack to maintain her interest other than just be myself. If that's not good enough she can move on. I'd rather find a girl who likes me for me, not an act I portray... that would be very tiring, and depressing.
Exactly..

If i were to be myself completely.. I'm the sort of typical routined guy out there, staying at home relaxing~~ ..
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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well there ya have it djVelvet !! you are a loser whose ashamed of himself..you are NOT ready for a relationship, you are NOT deserving of the right to call yourself a MAN..please spend the rest of your life accepting yourself and learning to be happy with yourself.

Crank It Up and LMS, came through with EVEN MORE SOLID advice, sadly you are not on their level..please leave mature man forum and rejoin the AFC society on the main boards.

p.s. Have a Nice Day
 

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Drum&Bass said:
well there ya have it djVelvet !! you are a loser whose ashamed of himself..you are NOT ready for a relationship, you are NOT deserving of the right to call yourself a MAN..please spend the rest of your life accepting yourself and learning to be happy with yourself.

Crank It Up and LMS, came through with EVEN MORE SOLID advice, sadly you are not on their level..please leave mature man forum and rejoin the AFC society on the main boards.

p.s. Have a Nice Day
Hey buddy, be cool, why got so worked up? :nono: Everyone's learning and if you are there bashing on certain posters, then good luck, we hope your behavior will improve :up: You still have a long way to go from what i see...

Anyway, another useless post by you, for your own goodplease think about it yourself.

p.s. Have fun learning :cool:
 
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