"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Does anyone here ever go Ultra Direct ?
- Thread starter Peterpack
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
lil hooligan
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There you go man, haven't personally done it myself but w/e works.
Greasy Pig
Master Don Juan
I've never done it right off the bat, but definitely within five minutes of meeting a chick and gauging how drunk/slutty/horny she is.
Success rates vary but if you can pick up a woman's "fvck me" signals, just go for it.
And it's all in the delivery. If you can put it out there with a healthy twinkle on your eye and a big grin, you'll stand more of a chance.