Does anyone here approach girls in college? (whether its in campus, or in classroom)

[evasive]

What kind of opening lines do you use if you are in a class, and you sit next to her.

What if you saw her in the library studying, what would you say?

What if shes eating by herself in the cafetaria?

How do you approach a girl in these situations?

 

[Mayfly]

"Hi, how are you doing. My name is __________"

works like magic anywhere you are :yes:

 

[Ratisson]

its funny that ur asking this question, because this scenrio came up today. I was in one of my classes and we had to get in groups to discuss questions and there was one pretty hot girl in the group. We made some indirect eye contact to each other but nothing major and then i noticed that when the lecture continued she kept tapping the leg of my chair with her foot. Any way after the class i went to get some lunch and then i went to chill in the student lounge and read my text. and after a couple minutes of this she walks by and we both loook at each other and she starts smiling. I play dumb and say "do i know u" and then we introduce ourselves and we get to talking (and my god do i suck at conversation, i cant think of anything to talk about with a girl, and i need some advise on some topics). So then after a couple mins i say im going to get a coffee, and she says " i'll come with u" after she had just drank a large tee she goes and gets another one with me. and then we find out were in another class together and we end up going to that one together.
So to answer ur question i think that its good to let them come to u for the first couple weeks of class, and if they dont then eventually u just go up to them and strike up a convo.

 

[qweretyuiopas]

funny u pick the easiest situations to talk to a woman, sittin next to her, lol u aint gotta get up to talk to her, eatin by herself who wouldnt mind good company instead of being alone, she prob is hopin someone decides to sit with her you can say just about anything w/o being a jerk or weirdo and it'll be cool.
I dont know about the letting them come to you cause not many chicks have that kinda confidence to approah guys they into they usually wait on the first move, I think waiting can only hurt your chances dependin on the chick. I say as soon as possible for 1 being in a new class its good to be social at the beginning and 2 if u wait to long u may put too much pressure on it and sike yourself out.

I say use the same intro mayfly posted in all situations, then go on into more convo about specific things about your surroundings (library - something about her book or a book u enjoy ; caf - about how good or crappy the food is or why she eatin alone ; class - about the class or if u heard the teacher was a real hard ass or whatever)
btw thats good for anyone men or women for friends now if u sexually into a chick dont wait long to show her u into her in that way or u steppin in the friendzone real quick

 

[BluEyes]

It's the other way around for me.

I'm in H.S. still, and college girls approach me when I go to visit friends there. If you pick up any IOIs, start talking, kino, escalate, room, fvck, morning, leave.

 

[BlahBBlah]

Oddly enough, I've been having no problem approaching girls lately. Probably has to do with my recent heartbreaking situation. It just makes me more motivated to get out there and find someone new. Just do it wherever you are and when it just feels natural enough for you. I saw a girl reading a book. I simply went over and asked her what she was reading and carried it on from there. A girl is sitting next to me in art class, I ask to see her photos for the assignment. Carries on from there. Just find a starting place every time and go from there. It feels natural for them as well.

 

[BacardiGuy]

In large lecture rooms when I see a cute girl sitting by herself I always go up ask if they mind if I sit next to them, smile, then introduce myself.

 

[muzicfreak2k3]

oo Im a senior in high school now n this info kinda applies ther too.
@ Bacardiman - Do you go to Syracuse University ? I'm gonna be a freshman there next year and was wonderign how it was from a students POV. Thanks.

 

[lebRambo]

college is the EASIEST place to lay down some game. I've gotten numbers from girls i met in lectures, tutorials, computer labs and even the f*cking ATM line