"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Does anyone have "Hodar"?

PeasantPlayer

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People have claims of gaydar, but what about hodar? I ask because I have it and I am 99 percent accurate in my own personal experiences. Do any of you have it? Some of my friends don't have it and end up getting used and heartbroken over a slut. I warned them....lol
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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A guy I used to go to school with introduced a few of us to his new girlfriend the other day and I got major "hodar" from her. You can just tell when a girls had too much d!ck.

My instincts were correct when she started to grind on my d!ck when he went to get a drink and proceeded to whisper in my ear something like "I used to be a naughty girl, dont tell (the guy)"

Cue Ludacris song "Ho" http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oIVODIQKB44
 

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Back when I used to go to the clubs a lot, I could tell the girls who were out looking for d!ck.

They weren't the wild and crazy girls, making noise, and drawing attention to themselves. They were the quieter ones, who knew how to get your attention with their eyes.

Man, I miss those days.
 

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bradd80 said:
Who says they have to end!

You didn't go out and get married on us did you??
Haha. Definitely not married.

I didn't mean that I missed clubs. I missed the days when I could physically handle being in clubs. Loud noises. 21-year old dudes. Sweaty people.

These days, I prefer going to places where I can actually hear my friends speak and converse with people.

The ole "hodar" (as the OP calls it) doesn't seem to work as well outside of the club environment though.
 

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Iceberg said:
Haha. Definitely not married.

I didn't mean that I missed clubs. I missed the days when I could physically handle being in clubs. Loud noises. 21-year old dudes. Sweaty people.

These days, I prefer going to places where I can actually hear my friends speak and converse with people.
Interesting. You miss what you no longer find appealing.
Such is nostalgia.

As to the OP's question, I definitely have good "hodar". And I don't go to clubs at my age. There are definitely signs - watching the way they interact with other men is a big giveaway. But there's also a gut feeling.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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