“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Does anyone have "Hodar"?

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People have claims of gaydar, but what about hodar? I ask because I have it and I am 99 percent accurate in my own personal experiences. Do any of you have it? Some of my friends don't have it and end up getting used and heartbroken over a slut. I warned them....lol
 
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A guy I used to go to school with introduced a few of us to his new girlfriend the other day and I got major "hodar" from her. You can just tell when a girls had too much d!ck.

My instincts were correct when she started to grind on my d!ck when he went to get a drink and proceeded to whisper in my ear something like "I used to be a naughty girl, dont tell (the guy)"

Cue Ludacris song "Ho" http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oIVODIQKB44
 
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Back when I used to go to the clubs a lot, I could tell the girls who were out looking for d!ck.

They weren't the wild and crazy girls, making noise, and drawing attention to themselves. They were the quieter ones, who knew how to get your attention with their eyes.

Man, I miss those days.
 
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bradd80 said:
Who says they have to end!

You didn't go out and get married on us did you??
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Haha. Definitely not married.

I didn't mean that I missed clubs. I missed the days when I could physically handle being in clubs. Loud noises. 21-year old dudes. Sweaty people.

These days, I prefer going to places where I can actually hear my friends speak and converse with people.

The ole "hodar" (as the OP calls it) doesn't seem to work as well outside of the club environment though.
 
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Iceberg said:
Haha. Definitely not married.

I didn't mean that I missed clubs. I missed the days when I could physically handle being in clubs. Loud noises. 21-year old dudes. Sweaty people.

These days, I prefer going to places where I can actually hear my friends speak and converse with people.
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Interesting. You miss what you no longer find appealing.
Such is nostalgia.

As to the OP's question, I definitely have good "hodar". And I don't go to clubs at my age. There are definitely signs - watching the way they interact with other men is a big giveaway. But there's also a gut feeling.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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