"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Does anyone have back acne and effect on dating/sex

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I have really clear skin on face etc.

But on my back I get these huge spots like boils and cysts. Well I got treatments and they are reduced a lot but now and then I still have some.

Has anyone else and what have girls said about this?

Did you keep your t-shirt on during sex etc?

Anything else?

I got 1 girl and b4 I got naked said I have soemthing to tell you lol..I got spots on my back..she said she didnt care she used to get them when younger and then we made out. So that occasion was fine.
 

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Scars

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Bro, it's normal. You made it a bigger thing than it needed to be. You shouldn't even had told her.

I live in Arizona. It's a common thing. I have it a little on my back but it's nothing too crazy. You're probably just over exaggerating. I've been at the river all summer and there's plenty of guys with it rolling with some hott woman. If anything, tell them you work out a lot. "It happens." That's the kind of attitude you need to have. Don't be so self-conscience of it.

I even had it on my face for awhile. Back in high school. Not so much now. I get like a pimple maybe like once a month. But even then, I was still banging chicks. Perfect skin is a woman thing. As long as you are masculine, confident, and give off the sexy attitude vibe you will be fine.

Good luck.

-Scars
 

Mike32ct

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donnyjondeppjuando said:
I have really clear skin on face etc.

But on my back I get these huge spots like boils and cysts. Well I got treatments and they are reduced a lot but now and then I still have some.

Has anyone else and what have girls said about this?

Did you keep your t-shirt on during sex etc?

Anything else?

I got 1 girl and b4 I got naked said I have soemthing to tell you lol..I got spots on my back..she said she didnt care she used to get them when younger and then we made out. So that occasion was fine.
With all due respect, I think you worry too much. You post about spots your back, hair thinning, or whether a younger face is good or bad. I know how you feel because I've been there.

Yes, looks and appearance matter. Everything matters, to a point. Take reasonable steps to maximize your looks, but at some point, you have to just go with what you have.

I have a bald spot (that a manage with a fairly short haircut - not ready to shave it yet), eczema (that I manage with cold showers), sort of a young looking face (that has been a bonus, although it's aging a bit now), slender build (that I'm toning up at the gym), and ok (but not great) height: 5'10ish. But I still function in this game.

You got the treatments for spots on your back, so it sounds like you ALREADY took some reasonable steps to treat it. I'd say you're all set. You don't have to clear it up 100%. It isn't super critical.

Anyway, Scars gave sound advice.
 

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Man, this guy is one Grade A troll I must say.

The stuff he posts is off-the-charts-ridiculous.
 
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