"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Does anyone have back acne and effect on dating/sex

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I have really clear skin on face etc.

But on my back I get these huge spots like boils and cysts. Well I got treatments and they are reduced a lot but now and then I still have some.

Has anyone else and what have girls said about this?

Did you keep your t-shirt on during sex etc?

Anything else?

I got 1 girl and b4 I got naked said I have soemthing to tell you lol..I got spots on my back..she said she didnt care she used to get them when younger and then we made out. So that occasion was fine.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Scars

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Bro, it's normal. You made it a bigger thing than it needed to be. You shouldn't even had told her.

I live in Arizona. It's a common thing. I have it a little on my back but it's nothing too crazy. You're probably just over exaggerating. I've been at the river all summer and there's plenty of guys with it rolling with some hott woman. If anything, tell them you work out a lot. "It happens." That's the kind of attitude you need to have. Don't be so self-conscience of it.

I even had it on my face for awhile. Back in high school. Not so much now. I get like a pimple maybe like once a month. But even then, I was still banging chicks. Perfect skin is a woman thing. As long as you are masculine, confident, and give off the sexy attitude vibe you will be fine.

Good luck.

-Scars
 

Mike32ct

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donnyjondeppjuando said:
I have really clear skin on face etc.

But on my back I get these huge spots like boils and cysts. Well I got treatments and they are reduced a lot but now and then I still have some.

Has anyone else and what have girls said about this?

Did you keep your t-shirt on during sex etc?

Anything else?

I got 1 girl and b4 I got naked said I have soemthing to tell you lol..I got spots on my back..she said she didnt care she used to get them when younger and then we made out. So that occasion was fine.
With all due respect, I think you worry too much. You post about spots your back, hair thinning, or whether a younger face is good or bad. I know how you feel because I've been there.

Yes, looks and appearance matter. Everything matters, to a point. Take reasonable steps to maximize your looks, but at some point, you have to just go with what you have.

I have a bald spot (that a manage with a fairly short haircut - not ready to shave it yet), eczema (that I manage with cold showers), sort of a young looking face (that has been a bonus, although it's aging a bit now), slender build (that I'm toning up at the gym), and ok (but not great) height: 5'10ish. But I still function in this game.

You got the treatments for spots on your back, so it sounds like you ALREADY took some reasonable steps to treat it. I'd say you're all set. You don't have to clear it up 100%. It isn't super critical.

Anyway, Scars gave sound advice.
 

RockaRolla25

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Man, this guy is one Grade A troll I must say.

The stuff he posts is off-the-charts-ridiculous.
 
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