"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Does anyone felt this?

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Hey guys,

I am an educated guy, nice car, job and everthing. Still I always need reassurance that I am good enough.

For few days, I would feel good abt myself (during that time I am good with gals and anyone else per sake) but when I am feeling down, I do everything worng. Speak what I am not supposed to, make foolish jokes (that offend a person), feel that I am useless. And I observe that I go through these phases in a cycle.

Has anyone else felt the same?

Is there a way to overcome this?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What you are experiencing is pretty common. Talk to a therapist about it (not a shrink).
 
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WOW!!!! that is exactly how i feel. my problem is that in my buisness (i'm a mortgage broker) i'm all commision. i've been in the buisness for almost 2 years and i just recently started making money. i was very happy before i started making all this money. i get so stressed out for no reason at all. i have nothing to be down about, i live at home and have no real expences. i'm 20 years old, i drive a bmw 540i, and i make 6 figures a year. i guess i'm just scared of how i'm going to survive in the real world, and that i'm not guaranteed a set salary. i smoke a lot of weed just to calm me down. i'm hoping this is just a faze. otherwise i should see a therapist or something.
 
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You might want to knock the "weed" smoking out. That shyt isn't good for anyone. Get high on life.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It may not be bipolar, there's also a thing called unipolar. Bipolar occurs in cycles at like 3 weeks to 6 (if I remember correctly). Unipolar can be a day to day thing.

I had a roommate who was crazy, at first I thought bipolar, then unipolar, turned out he was schizo.

See a doctor about it, if its really a problem for you. Or smoke lots of weed, thats always worked for me.
 
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unamean....you make six figures and you are 20.....dude, can you school me on how you do so well......

Hey great question by the way, I just want to point out and I could be wrong, but Attitude is everything....and at times, circumstances arise that try to make us feel down, whether they be persecuation, or just oour own mistakes........keeping a positive attitude keeps you focused and upbeat....even in a stressful environment.
 
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Originally posted by unamean
i smoke a lot of weed just to calm me down. i'm hoping this is just a faze. otherwise i should see a therapist or something.
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Paranoia is one of the effects of the weed smoking.

sony007 - need of reassurance is normal. Does it interfere with your life significantly? how?
 
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Originally posted by Ice Cold
Paranoia is one of the effects of the weed smoking.

sony007 - need of reassurance is normal. Does it interfere with your life significantly? how?
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well not significantly. but it does. when i m down, i feel bad abt myself. hate everyone. cant take jokes or bull **** from anyone. feel like angry. I might not seem as bad as i sound cause everything is goin on inside the mind.

but when i m feeling good, i have this feeling that i can conquer the world.

i dont smoke (weed or anything). i dont drink (at all) either.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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FrustratedChump said:
It may not be bipolar, there's also a thing called unipolar. Bipolar occurs in cycles at like 3 weeks to 6 (if I remember correctly). Unipolar can be a day to day thing.
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I'm a psychology major. Actually, unipolar is just another word for regular depression. See, bipolar (bi meaning two) means there are two poles to the disorder: up (manic) and down (depressed). Unipolar (uni meaning one) means there's just one pole: depressed.
 
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lol. Dude, thats fvcking hilarious!
 
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Originally posted by sony007
I am an educated guy
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well (and some one with my poor grammer and spelling should not be complaining lol) for some one who is educated, maybe oyu should change the thread title, surely you know not to mix up past and present in the same sentance :p

dude anyway im just messing with you, so im not having a go or anything, peace out.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by PVSSY-EATER
unamean....you make six figures and you are 20.....dude, can you school me on how you do so well......

ITS ALL SALES, AND HARD WORK. ON EACH DEAL THAT YOU CLOSE YOU MAKE $3,000-10,000. I CLOSE LIKE 2-3 A MONTH WHICH IS PRETTY MUCH GARBAGE COMPARED TO WHAT THE GUYS ON MY TEAM CLOSE. MY FRIEND THAT WORKS HERE MAKES $100,000 A MONTH, IM NOT KIDDING EITHER.
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okay...unamean, when I graduate college, i am goin into pharm. sales......tell me somethin bro, have you read the tom hopkins material like being an interested introvert and thats how you do it? dude...I am 21 and I want some of your success, hahaa, you are the fvckin man dude!! Can you school me, hell, I will pay ya 12 bucks an hour, haah!
 
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