"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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does anyone feel this way after sex?

Jair213

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after busting a nut its like my mind and body feel detach from the girl. I dont want to cuddle or deal with her in anyway i either go to sleep or just get up and do wateva the hell i have to do. I dont feel emotion or affection towards her. its like after releasing they turn off a switch in me and i just go cold mode. i also get annoyed really easy or pist off .. wtf:nervous:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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usually this happens to me after ive been banging them for a couple of months.

I think because this sort of time frame is where you can subconsciously feel them getting attached / clingy, and youre trying to deflect the feelings because you dont feel the same.

I mean after all - who wouldnt get attached after having 3 months of magical time from purefilth ;)


If its ONS that youre referring to - then its probably because you werent really attracted to her for anything other than getting that one NUT. Therefore - nut bust, girl used, NEXT -

"please dont disturb the neighbours on your way out"
 

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Purefilth said:
usually this happens to me after ive been banging them for a couple of months.

I think because this sort of time frame is where you can subconsciously feel them getting attached / clingy, and youre trying to deflect the feelings because you dont feel the same.

I mean after all - who wouldnt get attached after having 3 months of magical time from purefilth ;)


If its ONS that youre referring to - then its probably because you werent really attracted to her for anything other than getting that one NUT. Therefore - nut bust, girl used, NEXT -

"please dont disturb the neighbours on your way out"
Exactly.

That's really an indicator of how much you like a woman. How do you feel after you bust a nut? Do you get up and all of the sudden realize you need to do laundry? Or do you lay there with her and talk and cuddle and $hit.

And as Purefilth said, it could be a defensive reaction on your part. You just had sex with this girl, you sense her feeling all lovey dovey, which in turn pushes you further away, to the point where you start to feel repulsed. If she was on the same level as you, just in it for the sex, then you'd probably feel differently.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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hmm interesting I never really feel like that I let the girl do it if i was lazy, but I never really feel like doing it, sure its helps it was her bed or a motel, so after we are done I would take a bath and bail maybe some talk before, but never really feel the need to cuddle her or anything.
 

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"That's really an indicator of how much you like a woman. How do you feel after you bust a nut?"

That's the best method I've heard yet.

Someone I don't care about: Can't leave soon enough after.

Someone I DO care about: Wanna get Breakfast?
 

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Even with my ex that I really loved I felt that way I did love felt strong feelings for her but because we had that bf and gf relationship I always faked it into feeling something different after sex. Didn't want to make her feel worthless lol if we did cuddle I would just lay there with her emotionless like a stone I would get really sleepy or I needed to do something else. After my x I banged 2 other chicks and m this is were it showed. I would just leave or dress up talk a bit and leave.. both of them even ask that I didn't looked satisfi ed.. It's like busting a nut was all I cared about after. I'm going crazy ..Smh
 
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If I'm at her place, it would depend on if I'm sober enough to drive. If not, I'd wait it out, it does feel awkward. Most of the time I try to pass out and put on my clothes at 4-5 in the morning without them knowing. Sometimes I find myself sobering up in my car.

If she's at mine, I grab a drink and the waiting game starts. I start to clean up my room so I don't have to tomorrow morning. Most of the time they offer to help, which I appreciate. I'll walk them to the car and give them a kiss goodbye and stare at them in the eye to fake warmth.

I had an HB8 plate for 6 weeks and the only thing I could think of after the first lay was getting some nachos. Or more booze or cigarette when I was a smoker. Just sit there and reflect how you were able to get in her pants. The subtle cues she gave that she wanted to fvck.

It's that feeling that you just beat the game. Sure, you may want to replay it, but maybe some other time. Very rarely I have the motivation to get seconds on the same meeting. The mystery and excitement of women are gone after you jizz. The bitterness of poor standard, however, remains long after.

Jair213 said:
Even with my ex that I really loved I felt that way I did love felt strong feelings for her but because we had that bf and gf relationship I always faked it into feeling something different after sex. Didn't want to make her feel worthless lol if we did cuddle I would just lay there with her emotionless like a stone I would get really sleepy or I needed to do something else. After my x I banged 2 other chicks and m this is were it showed. I would just leave or dress up talk a bit and leave.. both of them even ask that I didn't looked satisfi ed.. It's like busting a nut was all I cared about after. I'm going crazy ..Smh
Be honest, would you consider having sex with your ex if she wanted to?

yyc12 said:
nope...love eating more pvssy after..and cuddling.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If it's my gf..i enjoy her company sincerely and enjoy hugging her because i know her so well even though the sex is old and worn out compared to banging a new girl, if it's a new girl i am ready for her to leave immediately unless i am super attracted to her and want to eat her her out and go one or 2 more times...but after i am sexually satisfied i am ready to kick all of them out except my GF who is also my good friend...
 
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