"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Does anyone else here find women's feet... extremely attractive?

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^^Thank you for using one of your posts as that. I needed a laugh. So damn true
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I love feet,idk what it is really but I allways had a feet fetish.But I agree with you Elstud,I think its the soles.She doesnt even have to have a fatty,if she got some nice feet,shes good money.
 

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I'm a HUGE legs guy, tanned and toned(not bow-legged), like someone already said. The women I go for need to have painted fingernails(painted toe-nails a plus too), be tan or somewhat tan, nice legs, feet, breasts, face, and hair.
 
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The female foot is an extremely sexy
sexy part of the female body . I don't consider it a fetish at all , as if so , some men would have boob , or butt fetishes . The woman has a gorgeous frame from head to sweet toes , so I would not consider admiration of any part a fetish .
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Just another variable in the human condition. I personally don't care about feet in the slightest unless they're gross, but I don't look below the knees unless something stinks or stabs at me in bed.
 

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I must say I’m one of those guys. I can’t fathom why some of us are that way. But in fact, it’s impossible for me to fathom how a guy would NOT be attracted to women’s feet. It is so natural and inescapable to me, that the only way I can know it’s not universal is by reading what some of you guys say about your neutrality about the subject.

It’s not just an attraction; it’s also a certain fascination. There is something very gratifying about looking at them even when not in a sexual mood.
 

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I must say I’m one of those guys. I can’t fathom why some of us are that way. But in fact, it’s impossible for me to fathom how a guy would NOT be attracted to women’s feet.
That's interesting, since I'm sure I remember you saying that feet were ugly, and that's why women were so interested in shoes. Protesting too much, perhaps?

Anyway, I've never been one to have a foot fetish. But there is something about a woman's bare feet that suggests nudity, so it can be appealing. I like if a girl has small feet, if a girl has big feet it's not very feminine. And even though I'm not a foot person, compared to men's feet, women's are very attractive. If a girl has ugly feet, it's off putting though.
 

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It really depends on the feet (and they can't have any stupid words tattooed on them). I'm pretty fussy on the type of feet I like on a woman, and I generally like them quite small. Here's something that I like:




These are ugly as fvck:

 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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That's interesting, since I'm sure I remember you saying that feet were ugly, and that's why women were so interested in shoes. Protesting too much, perhaps?

Anyway, I've never been one to have a foot fetish. But there is something about a woman's bare feet that suggests nudity, so it can be appealing. I like if a girl has small feet, if a girl has big feet it's not very feminine. And even though I'm not a foot person, compared to men's feet, women's are very attractive. If a girl has ugly feet, it's off putting though.
I said that I read an article where women describe their feet as their least favorite body part, and hence I theorize that since they don't like feet in general, anything that dresses them up or covers them is going to be seen as highly desirable, and that's why they love shoes so much.
 
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