"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Does anyone else have controlling mothers??

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I don't blame my mom as the main reason I do badly with women. I blame myself and know it's my fault, but I think my mom being controlling is a huge factor. I firmly believe that the way you interact with your mom is the way you interact with most women. And since I let my mom control me, I then let other women that I'm going for control me. Also having a control mother causes you to develop into the nice guy women hate instead of the bad boy women love.

Now don't get me wrong. I'm not a mama's boy at all. Far from it. Unlike mama's boys, I don't rely on her or need to be around her at all BUT I still let her control me now matter how hard I try to avoid it.

Once again, I'm not blaming everything on my mom, but I do think she's a factor.

What do you guys think?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dysfunctional parent gender roles make for dysfunctional person
 
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i do!! i do!! i have two controlling parents. they made me like this; a nice guy with no friends and no purpose in life. I never got to go out with friends in high school and never joined school activities.

however, that is in the past. you're the only factor that determines who you want to be today.
 
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dude04 said:
i do!! i do!! i have two controlling parents. they made me like this; a nice guy with no friends and no purpose in life. I never got to go out with friends in high school and never joined school activities.

however, that is in the past. you're the only factor that determines who you want to be today.
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Yeah, I agree, but it's not that hard when they've been there for a great percentage of your life.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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my mother is still controlling, but its tough for her to act 1500 miles away :)
 
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My mom said i cant have a girlfriend until in 16 so when i was younger i just never talked to girls...and now its kinda biting me in the foot.
 
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