"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Does anybody live in Philadelphia or the area...

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that's outgoing and can be a mentor? It doesn't matter if you're younger than me (I'm 25) or older. I'm looking for someone that can help me get used to being social. If you know about parties or events with a lot of people and great opportunities to make friends and can send me an invite...that'd be awesome.

I find it so hard to get out of this rut and make friends when I have no foundation.

I promise that I'm real cool, not weird or crazy and wouldn't have a problem mingling with other people. I just don't have the balls to go out someplace by myself...

If interested, PM me. Thanks!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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whats up man. Im 20 years old. I went to this pua meeting last summer. Like 30 guys showed up and we sarged like half of philly. It was hilarious. Theres a couple guys i could send you to who live in philly. There in your age group and are smooth with women.
 
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Phat said:
whats up man. Im 20 years old. I went to this pua meeting last summer. Like 30 guys showed up and we sarged like half of philly. It was hilarious. Theres a couple guys i could send you to who live in philly. There in your age group and are smooth with women.
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I'm interested.
 
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