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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

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Does anybody get food at Trader Joes?

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I know they have healthy food there but there's so much wierd food there. I want to know which of you eat there and what is good there. What's cheap, tasty and healthy over there?

So far I like thier stuffed chicken. It's only $2.59 and it has 34 grams of protein with almost no fat.

What else is good there?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I love Hyori Lee said:
I know they have healthy food there but there's so much wierd food there. I want to know which of you eat there and what is good there. What's cheap, tasty and healthy over there?

So far I like thier stuffed chicken. It's only $2.59 and it has 34 grams of protein with almost no fat.

What else is good there?

I like the wild king salmon they sell frozen as well as the frozen chicken breasts or the grass fed beef.

If you want to buy frozen prepared foods, get it at TJ's. They don't use any chemicals in them.
 

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Experiment...

Personally, I don't shop at Trader Joe's. At this point, my budget wouldn't allow me to shop there.

But they definitely have real quality food... most of their stuff is organic, so it's a great payoff instead of the processed food which tends to have chemicals that don't work well with your body's normal method of digestion.

I would think that it'd be a great opportunity for you to build a relationship with some of the grocers over there, especially if you're planning on frequenting... it's a small store, they usually recognize their patrons. Ask around and see what'd be good... you could definitely narrow it down to what would make a nice dinner combo/lunch... etc. etc.

Just know at least the ballpark type of food you're looking for, you don't want to waste someone's time by going through the whole 1,000+ item catalogue with you, plus you subcommunicate that you're at least aware of what you actually want.

Happy shopping!!
 

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Ya... I've had a pretty good burrito from there as well.

I get a lot of frozen fruits there, for smoothies. Good choices, and cheap.
Think a bag of frozen pineapple bitz, is only like $1.69 or something.

I also get some of their indian meals. Pretty good, although some of them are just mad spicy.

Outside of fitness... anyone try those carrotcakes!? lol... INSANE!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Yo... just remembered.
They have some bomb lil taquitos too. lol
Black bean and Cheese.

Not the best for you, but the fvckers are cryp!

P.S. don't know how many of you have a Costco around, but they have mad swoops on food too. Bulk size sh!t.
 
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