"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Does a woman see 100% you or 50% you..important thought.

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women haze

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Hello guys,

I just wanted to present this discussion that often is not talked about. When you are out getting to know, or dating a woman what side of you are you displaying?

I know know about any of you, but there is two sides to me...A extreme geek side, and the quote n quote social norm side. There is the video games, computers, video game music loving side of me and then the drinking, partying, hip hop, Reality Drudging Numbness that is on the other side of the fence...

Most girls whom I meet I display the latter as it is the most appealing side don't you agree? yet, if you are hiding the other side, and all of a sudden a wave of geekyness strikes her what then?

How much of an impact do you think a woman feels with a man to which her perception of him is this cool etc etc..all of a sudden changes to the other side..a geek?

I struggle with this everyday....Should i show 100% off the break, she likes this side of me, but couldn't care less about the other side.

Does it frighten you if you meet a great girl one side you know she likes..the other side she doesn't?

I guess the whole point of dating is getting to know someone inside and out...All cards on the table.

How do you guys feel about this? :confused:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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My opinion is women aren't seeking to "know us"

They want men, and if you are willing to play that role for her, she's not going to look much deeper.
 
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Aaron B said:
My opinion is women aren't seeking to "know us"

They want men, and if you are willing to play that role for her, she's not going to look much deeper.
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I like this, but it's a little pessimistic. As long as you are a man, a woman will appreciate and enjoy all parts of you, whether they're "cool" or not.
 
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As Louis/Copeland wrote "As a man there will come times when you want to explain why you do things the way you do. Don't do it. Never offer details about yourself. Only answer questions."

I consider this one of the fundamentals.
 
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LearningSlowly said:
I like this, but it's a little pessimistic. As long as you are a man, a woman will appreciate and enjoy all parts of you, whether they're "cool" or not.
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I didn't pass judgment on it. I made an observation. To be pessimistic I would have to see it negatively, which I don't.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Be yourself. She can take it or leave it.

Do you genuinely enjoy video games? if so, don't give it up for any woman.
 
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